Post wedding gift etiquette

[julikam]

We have gone through our registry thank you card manager that store has and one of my good friends bought us two place settings of our china, but we never received it as a gift. I asked the store to run tracking to see it is was shipped to us or to her. She ordered it 6 months before our wedding and had it shipped to her. She lives locally and our wedding was about 3 hours away. I am not sure if she forgot she has it or was planning to give it to me later because she didn't want to bring to the wedding. Should I ask her about it or wait for her to say something?

[SkyHighT100]

I think it goes without saying that you need to say something to her. It's possible she thought it was delivered to you yet never delivered to her in the first place (benefit of the doubt). I can't imagine forgetting a china set being delivered to my home, not to mention two. Something seems kind of fishy, but I wouldn't question her in a confrontational way, more of a "following up with the registry" kind of thing.

[ylan9383]

If you are close friends, just ask.  It's probably her mistake in the first place that it never made it to you.  She shouldn't get offended.

[kbride2014]

I would ask!

[megan224]

I would ask her too.

[Kyliewylie]

ya, just feign innocence and say you are "following up on the registry"