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#11 DreamsTulumBride

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Posted 08 October 2007 - 08:34 AM

I would let the family rush ... You told the family 1st that the wedding was on a beach on a certain date, no? So why did your step-sister plan her wedding 7 days after yours? That is not very nice... I don't have a sister, but I would be so mad at her if she would of done this to me ! Talk some sense into her, mabe things will turn out fine

#12 jamisoncollette

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    Posted 08 October 2007 - 09:37 AM

    I should print this out and show my mom. Maybe if she saw how many people have successful DW's she would ease up. She doesn't like travel or speak Spanish but I keep reminding her it's a US territory for crying out loud!
    Unfortunately the step-twit is FI's step-sister and there is no talking to them. They actually leave the room whenever his family is around. Every holiday is painful to say the least. I feel we are trying, I know I am but they just seem so angry that their dad remarried and they are taking it out on us.
    Thanks for the encouragement ladies!

    #13 Alyssa

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      Posted 08 October 2007 - 10:09 AM

      I can't believe she would book her wedding a week after you are having a DW - what a BEYOTCH!!!!
      I'm pulling for you - don't let them get to you - in the end they will be glad they are there with you or you will glad they are not there to drag you both down!

      #14 Sharonie

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        Posted 08 October 2007 - 11:14 AM

        Can't believe families are the ones typically giving grief to DWs. This is your time and it is all about you. I completely agree with everyone else said, don't worry about whether they will come or not, just do what you love and make yourselves happy.

        #15 Spazz

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          Posted 08 October 2007 - 12:11 PM

          Quote:
          Originally Posted by MoBride
          I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I can't believe she booked her wedding the week after your destination wedding. I wouldn't change any of your plans though. Go, have a good time and don't worry about accomodating people that are not worried about you or your feelings.
          I agree with Mo and everyone else... I can't believe your stepsister did that...unbelievable! Keep planning your DW, it's YOUR day!

          #16 Jenn

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            Posted 08 October 2007 - 06:11 PM

            Sorry to hear you're going through this! I don't have much to add - except that the step-sister is being a spoiled brat. Who does that? In any case, plan your wedding the way you want it! Its your day.




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