I didn't have my wedding there but I just returned from Secrets Wild Orchid for our honeymoon. It was fantastic! Please, please, please make sure you get all of your benefits while your there. I booked everything Christina Smith over email. She made sure that everything was in order. We had the honeymoon welcome including fruit and champagne, romantic dinner (she was able to get the wedding gazebo for us), rose petal turn-down and bath, couples massage, champagne breakfast in bed and reservations at the himitsu hibachi table. I will definitely go back.
I saw a few weddings while I was there. They were all less than 8 people so I couldn't tell you about chairs since they had everyone under the gazebo. I would definitely inquire about an off premises photographers. We had our pictures taken by the resort photogs and they were okay but nothing really special.