That definitly is pretty annoying. However I don't know if it is just having a DW one of my really close friends got married at home and her sister the MOH planned her bachelorette party a day before the party. Invited all her boyfriends friends and her boyfriend... and then forgot to pick up the bride and I which was the original plan. She aso cancelled on every single dress fitting.
It was a total mess I felt so bad for her. I did everything I could but so many things kept getting messed up.
I think some people are just inconsiderate about other peoples life experiences sometimes.
My brother is three years older than me, and he has been engaged twice before but never actually gotten married. He decided to propose to his girlfriend of a year and a half (they broke up and got back together once in the last six months). He is 30 and she is 22. I feel like he has done it for attention and has now taken away some of the specialness of it for me. I wasn't even engaged for two months before he decided now would be the time to upstageme.
I have been being a pretty big baby about it to be honest.