My FI thinks I'm going off a bit too much on the OOT bags. Although we have a smallish group of 15-20 going with us, they are all spending alot of $$$ to be there for us. Some couples have a child or two and that of course costs them that much more. I'm doing an oot bag for each couple/family, but instead of putting a ton of small items in I'm giving out bigger gift/souveniers, but of course it's starting to add up!
We're also not having a private reception and instead we are using that $ (plus a bit more and are treating our guests to an all day private excursion.
So the question is, how much are you guys spending on each bag and/or guest? Are you doing anything else special for them or with them? How much is too much?