Is this during your trip or before?
I know what you mean though... I am not planning on going out like a crazy party either. Plus, I am having a small group, and my moh - and sister - is underage. So our plan is to do a stagette weekend before we go to an out-of-town spa. We are probably going to rent a suite and do some sightseeing, dinner, spa stuff, and drinks and games in the hotel. (Yes, I know how far away my date is... I have a very organized moh and bm!)
Then, at the resort, my bm is planning a 'hen night' for all the ladies there. I think it will mostly be drinks in the lobby bar and general silliness. I am not sure what they have planned, but I knew that I did not want to leave out my moh by having a crazy party night.
Ideas from stagettes I have been to/ heard of if you are looking for one NOT at the resort...
pole dancing lessons (they can even come to a house)
belly dancing lessons
white water rafting trip (obviously depends on location) - this was combined stag/stagette
paintballing (also combined stag/stagette)
Concert to something you love - get dolled up and go in a limo
For there, I think the spa is a fabulous idea. Or maybe there is an excursion you would like to go on? Something like swimming with dolphins, snorkeling, anything local... There is a very cool spa experience on a boat in Punta Cana, for example, that I would love to go to if we were having ours there.
It depends on your group, if you want to spend money, and what you are looking for.
Personally, at the resort, I would do spa, dinner, games with the girls. I am sure there are lots of ideas online too.
Good luck and have fun planning!
Originally Posted by capecodder
We are down to 100 days until our wedding!! Can't believe how quickly time has flown!!
My girlfriends are asking for ideas for my stagette. I'm thinking of going to spa for self serve facials and then maybe to hotel room for some drinks? Anyone have any other ideas?? I'm not really that big of party person anymore. Went out to much during my university days! Lol!!