My FMIL has started to plan my bridal shower. Which is fine, but I am not getting married until 11/11/11. In July, she had the date set for 10/9/11. I found out yesterday from my fiance that she is making the napkins for the shower! Isn't that the strangest thing ever?! I mean I am flattered, but still think it's a little weird. I guess she likes me right?
Is this incredibly nice or kind of wacky?
Posted 13 October 2010 - 09:10 AM
It definitely means she likes you. But I think it might also mean that she is a planner and once she has an idea she want so see it come to life. I am the same way. I am not getting maried until November 2011 as well, but I have started ordering stuff for the wedding that could seriously wait, but once I have an idea I have to follow through.
Posted 13 October 2010 - 09:18 AM
Aww, that's sweet! She's just seems super excited, haha.
Posted 15 October 2010 - 03:59 PM
I think thats really cute. It means she wants it to be a really great party.
Posted 17 October 2010 - 05:29 AM
I agree with the ladies! She really likes you and wants to host a fabulous bash in your honor!
Posted 15 November 2010 - 09:49 PM
Wow! It's slightly weird to plan that far in advance, but definitely sweet! She's just excited about you getting married and throwing you a shower!
Posted 16 November 2010 - 03:37 AM
My FMIL was trying to show me dresses he minute we got engaged! Mine doesn't have any daughters so I think she see's this as a chance to do girlie stuff for a change. Just go with it but make sure you are ok with everything too!
Posted 16 November 2010 - 04:27 AM
That's nice but hopefully she doesn't turn into one of those monster-in-laws who ends up trying to plan the entire wedding.
Posted 16 November 2010 - 05:26 AM
I think it's sweet. She's caught up in the moment and sounds like she wants to cherish the moment. I can see how this could make you a little uncomfortable, but I don't think that's her intention. It seems like she knows her role, because she's making things for the shower and not your wedding. It seems like she could be a useful asset as your wedding approaches and she won't shy away from lending a helping hand!
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