im not sure if this topic is covered anywhere and i tried looking for it but couldnt find anything. The Royal menu options need to be decided prior to the wedding day. i want to give our guests 2 options but it is not allowed to give the guests the options when they are sitting at reception like any other wedding reception hall. to determine what the guests would like, do i ask each guest prior to the day? i was thinking of sending the choices with the invitation and have them send back their dinner choice to me with their RSVP. is this tacky or asking too much for our guests?
any advice would be appreciated!