Family Freaking out- Legal vs Symbolic?
Posted 26 July 2010 - 12:37 PM
I think we will just go ahead with our plans to go to the JOP the day before we leave for Mexico, not broadcast that the Mexican wedding is "symbolic" but if asked will tell the truth.
It's kind of silly when you think about it, if we were to do it "legal" in Mexico, it wouldn't be legal in the US until we did all the paperwork here anyway, so either way you are "illegal" for a time, so to speak.
Gotta love the family, huh?
Anyway, thanks so much, I feel a lot better after seeing what you all had to say!
Posted 26 July 2010 - 12:48 PM
ETA- oh and for symbolic weddings you still sign a certificate and have your witnesses sign. No one knows it's not legally binding!
Posted 26 July 2010 - 01:14 PM
Posted 26 July 2010 - 02:33 PM
Posted 26 July 2010 - 03:13 PM
Posted 26 July 2010 - 06:46 PM
Thanks ladies & gent!
Posted 26 July 2010 - 08:27 PM
Posted 28 July 2010 - 01:19 PM
Thanks for posting thread because i had this on my mind as well and reading every bodies thoughts on it was nice.. In my case i am thinking about doing it at home first as well for a lot of reasons...I am glad to hear your going to stay strong and do it the way it makes you happy...Hey like my FI says when i say my vowels to you and you to me is when its official and special... I hope you have a great wedding!!!
Posted 28 August 2011 - 08:45 PM
thanks for starting this thread. my future mother in law had a meltdown about how no one is going to show up cause its not a "real wedding" ..
i dont think she understands that trying to plan a wedding in mexico is quite difficult with the costs of everything. and how you have to be there so long before they will marry you...
maybe we will just say we are doing it legally there to get everyone to shutup. its definitely hurtful..
but ONE QUESTION -- some resorts and their wedding packages say that a priest, ect cost more money then what the actual package of the wedding costs.. is this true with the symbolic wedding package or only with the civil one?? and who does your ceremony if it doesnt cost more money? im lost on that part..
any feed back would be great thanks
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