Posted 17 February 2010 - 01:40 PM
I am having a shower as well as a bachelorette party. We are having a DW and an AHR so I included those people on the invite list to the shower and bachelorette party and I feel like friends are excited to celebrate!
Good luck - I hope that your family realizes that this is your day and you have the right to celebrate in the way you would like!
Posted 17 February 2010 - 01:44 PM
Posted 17 February 2010 - 04:09 PM
Posted 17 February 2010 - 04:12 PM
Posted 17 February 2010 - 04:18 PM
Same goes for a stagette.
Brides have enough to think about and plan for with the actual wedding (and I'm sure we've all learned that a DW isn't always cheaper or less hassle) that they don't need to be worrying about people's opinions about the events beforehand. We have tried to make it clear that we do not want gifts for our wedding. nor do I expect them at a shower- but I DO NOT feel bad about my mom, sister whoever hosting a shower for me.
I hope your mom told your aunt to shove it.
Posted 17 February 2010 - 06:06 PM
There are those people who have been excited about it from the get go, amd then there is that handful of people who do nothing but complain about every single thing. HIs mother made a comment about "well I think i'm the grooms mom and should know more about what is going on." I have TRIED to include her in everything!! I even asked her to come w/me when I got my dress. But she has shown no interest in anything at all. So why would I continue to bring up the wedding, when she acts as if she couldn't care less?? BTW his family still hasn't booked their trip...and we are getting married in may.
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