Hey Cathyandchin - will you please email me a copy of your script?
--We did a symbolic ceremony. We didn't want to deal with the legalities and blood work. I put together my script from others' on the forum and googling things. I can send you a copy if you're interested.
--We bought our sand ceremony frame from amazon. It's the umbra ether frame in espresso and we caulked the glass panes. The glass bottles with the sand were about a dollar a piece from Michael's. We didn't get these back
--I'm not sure if we had the equipment for a certain amount of time, he just told us he had to pack up and go at that time. I've heard that you can keep partying until 11 or 1130. We were so hot and tired that it didn't matter. Some of us went to Desires afterwards.
--No rehearsal. We didn't have a bridal party so it just didn't seem like a priority for us. In hindsight, I should've told my dad what to say. But it's better than he fumbled!!
Let me know if I can answer any more questions.