Kind of "disappointed and offended" by FMIL's response
Posted 14 May 2009 - 04:32 PM
| Originally Posted by TA Maureen |
I agree with Carly and Tami. I understand that you are upset but I have never really heard of anyone asking to have an AHR thrown for them. It's kind of like asking someone to throw a shower for you. She might have been taken aback just by the request not the fact that it's you or the second wife or anything like that.
Posted 14 May 2009 - 04:52 PM
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Posted 14 May 2009 - 06:59 PM
That is ok!!! We would just love to have you home for Christmas!!! You will have fun! And you will get to meet all the crazies!! HA! I may have to come earlier this summer than I wanted - I wanted to come over my b-day - but we have stuff at church going on that weekend soooo I was wondering if I could come over the 4th of July or the weekend of the 11th? Thinking about coming on a Thursday and going home on Tuesday or Wed. You all talk about it and let me know what works for you. Love you all!! Mom #2
This is actually the most laid back she's ever been with me-maybe it's a good thing all this happened-kind of like a backwards icebreaker. Obviously not my best moment but I think it might actually make things better. FI and I are now talking about how what he says impacts what I think and the opinions I form about his family. And it looks like I'll have a chance to start my own relationship with her in July-not the one I have through FI.
My very own "after school special" lesson. Thanks for all the honest feedback-maybe next time I'll think twice before I put my foot in my mouth.
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