Posted 23 January 2009 - 05:12 PM
Posted 23 January 2009 - 08:13 PM
You can have a shower even though you are doing a DW. If you are inviting friends and family, have a shower. I am debating on not having one only because my wedding will be my best friends and our family. But again, if there aren't limitations on your invite list, have a shower.
hope this helps
Posted 24 January 2009 - 02:01 PM
I was told that I was having a shower whether I liked it or not. I didn't really want my BM's to plan/pay for one b/c they are all in similar spots to me (less than 5 years into their careers, just bought houses, etc.) So my mom has asked my aunts to host something. Only 1 of my aunts is able to make the DW and the others really wanted to do something.
Posted 25 January 2009 - 12:07 PM
In your case, is your sister the only one in your BP? If not.. maybe ask your sister to talk to the other BM's or your family and she can help them coordinate from afar.
I see you are in JC, you can always join in on mine. I used to live in downtown JC (loved it!) and one of my BM's lives there still and the other is in Hoboken!!
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