Ellabaja, thanks for the clarifying that for me.
My fiance and I discussed it last night and if we can I think we will have the ceremony, then pictures and let everyone do their own thing for dinner except the wedding party and family. Would like to see if we can have a reservation for the 18 of us at the ala carte. Then later in the evening do a private cocktail party and dance. I see it is only for 2 hours, do you know if we can pay extra to have it longer??