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#21 A10CalGal

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    Posted 05 March 2007 - 09:17 PM

    Quite honestly Melissa, my mom is being a fucking pain in the ass! Seriously. It's like all of the sudden she's decided to start saying no to people - she always over extends herself. She's ending her marriage and learning to say no to him too. So I guess I get to pay for some of her NO therapy! What's so rediculous is that of all people, I am one that never asks her to do things for me, NEVER! And, ironically, I am the one that has been encouraging her to take care of herself first over the last few years. And now the one time I need her big time she just can't. I think with the dog being sick and her still mourning my grandpa's death, she's finally realized that she can't dig deep & power through right now...she's all tapped out.

    #22 BEACHBRIDEMA

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      Posted 06 March 2007 - 12:09 PM

      Christa
      I am so sorry you have to go through all of this right now. It will all work out in the end, just hold on for 2 more weeks!
      Thinking of you...
      Sarah
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      #23 NATASHA

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        Posted 06 March 2007 - 11:10 PM

        All I can say is WOW - you have a 16 year old? You look phenomenal!

        I'm so sorry for the added stress. I'd ship my mom out to you, but she has a hard time saying no to people, too, which, I'm afraid, your 16 yo would find very opportune, defeating the whole purpose of having adult supervision.
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        #24 A10CalGal

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          Posted 06 March 2007 - 11:20 PM

          Quote:
          Originally Posted by NATASHA
          All I can say is WOW - you have a 16 year old? You look phenomenal!

          I'm so sorry for the added stress. I'd ship my mom out to you, but she has a hard time saying no to people, too, which, I'm afraid, your 16 yo would find very opportune, defeating the whole purpose of having adult supervision.
          Oh no Natasha! I have a 16 yo STEP son to be!! Not biological! But, thanks!

          #25 NATASHA

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            Posted 07 March 2007 - 12:40 AM

            ok - but still. A 16 year old is a handful. For that, you are a saint.
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            #26 Sarah

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              Posted 07 March 2007 - 12:44 AM

              Just checking in Christa...you doing ok hon?

              Every day I'm counting down for you too! Isn't that sad? I'm just so excited for you!!!

              #27 A10CalGal

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                Posted 07 March 2007 - 03:40 PM

                I'm cool Sarah, thanks for asking. Look at you - 2 months to go!!

                Right now I am just focusing on what I need to do & letting R take care of the teenager situation, letting my mom take care of her situation & trying to keep things under wraps. I feel like I hardly have time to breath right now, but I know it will be fine once we get on the airplane next Wednesday.

                I've had to push up my ceremony time to 4pm from 5 due to the waning sunlight issue...a little nervous about all of the vendors being able to adjust. I've got a hair appt tonight, final dress fitting on Friday, our legal ceremony on Saturday, step sons 16th birthday on Sunday...wow, exhausting!

                #28 TammyB

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                  Posted 07 March 2007 - 03:47 PM

                  OMG I can't wait Christa.. Did you guys decide to stay at VDP for your honeymoon?

                  #29 A10CalGal

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                    Posted 07 March 2007 - 03:53 PM

                    Tammy - R is in charge of the honey moon & as far as I know that's where we will be. I realized I was giving him projects & then second guessing everything he did ...I made myself stop that. I'm just rolling with it!

                    #30 TammyB

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                      Posted 07 March 2007 - 04:05 PM

                      Well good, be sure to write up a review on VDP when you get back.. That why I know more about it.. :-) You know what, I haven't assigned Cain any tasks for the wedding. Hmmm what can I give him to do that I won't try to control.. Hmmm have to think of something..




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