1. We were planning on renting out the disco since it included drinks for 50 people, DJ and room for a set price but was informed of it being remodeled a month before we were set to leave. This was my moment of panic/bridezilla moment but it worked out in our favor. We ended up having a meeting room for the reception and we loved it. She must have misunderstood before I know it's $100 per hour for a dj.
2. We ended up using Ivan Luckie and we are still waiting for our pics. I have seen people being very happy with the resort photography as well. We wanted more than 3 hours and thought their packages were really pricey for what you get.
3. I actually did not need my dress steamed at all. Where I got my dress she did it all before putting it in a dress bag and said if I needed something to hang it up while running the shower. I brought a travel steamer as well which the guests used more than anything. I would think it would depend on what kind of material your dress is. I just didn't trust leaving my dress with just anyone so I tried to cover the bases myself.