Everyone is cancelling - feel like doing too
Posted 01 June 2008 - 01:49 PM
Yesterday, brother said he couldn't make it, one bridemaid down now (his gf not him!)
Everyone keeps canceling, we spent ages trying to find a hotel suitable for everyone.
Last week I found out I'm going to be made unemployed. Feel very deflated,
Trying to keep positive, but it seems to be falling apart. ... will we ever manage to get married
Sorry for the rant, really needed to vent frustration.
Posted 01 June 2008 - 01:55 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 01:57 PM
Lots of things happened, I felt like changing my mind so many times and calling it all off, but in the end we had 15 people including us and it was perfect. You will truly know who cares about you because they are spending a lot of money to be there for you not the food or dancing, but for you!
Don't give up it gets better I promise even if it isn't until the most magical day of your life, its worth it.
Posted 01 June 2008 - 02:15 PM
I've had the same problem with my lot, mostly just can't be arsed to go!! FI's lot are shocking a few have said yes we'll go but they haven't booked.
Just as we were going to tell everyone we found his mum was getting married AGAIN!!! so we haven't told her so we don't get accused of stealing her thunder lol and when she finds out she'll go ape shit ! and do I care Do I hell as like!
People will have a problem even if you get married here it will be on excuse or another. If they can't make the effort to go then thats their problem.
I know its hurtful but just remember the reasons why you are going abroad to do it, take a deep breath and say you know what thats fine you're missing out on a fab day!!
Posted 01 June 2008 - 02:32 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 02:43 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 02:51 PM
| Originally Posted by dainanewell |
I totally know how you feel...my fI mother just backed out....we we're suppose to have 50-60 people and now we're down to only 19 and that's including my 2 kids my FI and I....stressful!...but i hope everything works out for you!
Posted 02 June 2008 - 10:31 AM
I am going, FI is going ... everyone else can go whistle!
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