MOH and I broke up (long vent)
Posted 29 May 2008 - 02:43 PM
My MOH/BFF broke up over my wedding too. It sucks that people can't just be freakin happy for you. Or at least pretent. The way I look at it - I'm better off w/o her. It will be a year on June 9th, and I can honestly say that her drama just brought me down and now I don't have to deal with it.
I'm sorry you're going through this. It really does suck to have to deal with immaturity when you are trying to plan the biggest day of your life. Hang in there!
Posted 29 May 2008 - 02:46 PM
Let me know if you need a drinking buddy and I'll hop in my car and come up to Napa!
Posted 29 May 2008 - 02:49 PM
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:12 PM
2nd. I think she is jealous and she also probably wants to get married and her LOSER boyfriend is not thinking about her and she just took it out on you.
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:25 PM
First of all, she should have been honest with you from the GET if she didn't want to go.
I cannot stand dishonest people.
You offering to pay for her, then her turning around and AVOIDING you for no apparent reason speaks absolute volumes about her!
She is the selfish one in this case because how on earth does she expect YOU to spend every single moment with HER on YOUR wedding? I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous!
I wouldn't call her. At all. Since she's acting like you owe her something. That's just me, though. Don't give her the satisfaction.
It's a blessing that she showed her true colors BEFORE the wedding because when all is said in done, this remains:
YOU are getting married, the wedding WILL go on, and you are going to have a freakin' blast!
Sometimes breaking up is hard to do but necessary!
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:37 PM
I agree with everyone else. Better sooner rather than later, the last thing you need on your wedding weekend is drama because you aren't spending enough time with someone other than your FI. She sounds jelous and imature.
150 INVITES / 6 YES / 13 NO
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:38 PM
If your friendship was really meant to be and is strong enough then with time, maybe things will get better and you guys can talk and be friends again if you want that. I hope you feel better!! :-)
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:40 PM
I totally feel for you.
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:56 PM
Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:58 PM
Hopefully one day you guys can straighten this out. Good luck.
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