A little dissappointed
Posted 28 April 2008 - 09:26 AM
So my shower date has been set for about a month and a half now (6-7-08!) so I have been looking forward to it! I have my dress, gotten my hair done, started tanning again, etc. My sister has been so awesome in everything she has done for my wedding, shower, bach party, etc. But, last week she got a new job and found out she has to be out of town (Atlanta) for training for 2 weeks, which happens to be the same weekend of my shower. Her training includes weekends, so she can't come back for that weekend. I am so happy for her and so proud of her finally landing a good job but now, my shower date has to be changed. My other bridesmaid and friends are all super crazy busy and already have plans for the rest of the month. Now, it looks like my shower won't be until July 26th! On top of it, one of my other bridesmaids isn't willing to give up things that she has planned in order to have my shower. For example, her husband's niece has a dance recital one weekend in June...so she can't do it that weekend. I don't know, I guess I just feel that if it were me, I would compromise a little more.
Plus, my bach party has been scheduled for August 9th, which means that the shower and bach party would only be 2 weeks apart from each other. I have some friends that will be driving 4-5 hours to get there, and I just feel bad having btoh events so close together. I could do the shower and the bach party all in one weekend, but sometimes those seems so rushed and leave everyone completely drained by the end of it. So I don't know...I guess I am just a little dissappointed. Is that totally stupid?
Posted 28 April 2008 - 09:38 AM
Try not to be too upset about the bridesmaid's niece's recital. How would you feel if she suddenly found out about the recital and said she couldn't make it to your shower? I know it's disappointing, especially having to wait a little longer.
Posted 28 April 2008 - 10:37 AM
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:10 AM
Could you combine the shower & bachelorette party into one day?
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:14 AM
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:16 AM
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:40 AM
Sorry to hear things are up in the air for you as far as parties, big bummer.
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:45 AM
| Originally Posted by Morgan |
I am impressed you have friends that will drive 4-5 hours for a shower. I personally never leave town for a shower.
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:47 AM
| Originally Posted by nikkianddean |
I second that!! you have pretty cool friends!!!
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:59 AM
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