Posted 24 April 2008 - 12:47 PM
Any advise on how to handle this situation
Also look at my ticker!!!! 24 days to go...whooohoooo. Not months now..days! LOL
Posted 24 April 2008 - 02:13 PM
I would probably just jokingly say when the four of you are together that no cell phones are allowed. If they throw a fit, I wouldn't push it. Unless it's important to you. I just don't see it as something to let ruin your day. If they want to be controlling of each other, I guess you can't really stop them. I think it's more their loss than yours.
If she is disruptive to your plans (like calling every 20 mins, worrying more about her husband than what the two of you are doing), I'd just nicely call her attention to it. She is your friend after all. Just be honest. Remind her you want to enjoy your time together and the constant worry about what the boys are doing is putting a damper on it.
Posted 24 April 2008 - 02:16 PM
Posted 24 April 2008 - 02:22 PM
I think it is very rude of your friends to do this.. these things are you special things.. maybe ask her how her Bachelorette party was and see if they had to wait on other peopel...
I really hope they don't ruin your fun!!!
Posted 24 April 2008 - 04:00 PM
I would do like rachel suggested, casually bring it up to them as a joke that they need to leave their cells at home. If they throw a fit over it, i would just drop it. Don't let it ruin your time.
Posted 24 April 2008 - 09:52 PM
| Originally Posted by Kat81 |
I agree! You can always wait until the big group of you are together and say jokingly ok boys and girls today is about the boys being with the boys and the girls being with the girls. Leave your cell phones at home and lets go party.
| Originally Posted by DanielleNDerek |
They've been married for 12 yrs and act like this, really?!! That's crazy. I mean i'm not a fan of crazy bachelor parties, but I would never have fi call me so i can okay his every move.
I agree that after being married 12 years what do they think is honestly going to happen? I asked her this and she said it was cause she was cheeted on in the past and that is why she is this way. It was in highschool. She started dating her husband her senior year and was married the September after they graduated. My FI says her husband would NEVER cheat on her. I think he is afraid too. She would beat him down..lol
We are not having crazy bachelor/bachelorette parties. They are just just friends getting together having a good time. Neither of us are wild and crazy people and they both should know they have NOTHING to worry about. My FI doesn't even want to do the strip club thing. Even if he did I could care less. I trust him 100% and feel very lucky that we will have a marriage based on that!!
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