Scared about dress...

[angitalia23]

Am i the only one worried about what my FI is going to think about my dress?

 

Im like seriously stressing...I went for my first fitting last week (so mad my camera died, totally thought it was charged). Anyway, I love the dress, I feel like a total princess.. (*picture jessica simpsons dress...very similar)

However, I was hoping to take some of the tooling out from underneath...its very full. It flows well, but I just feel like its soooo formal and im worried my FI may think im wearing something way more beachy.

 

The seamstress said she can take out some of the tooling but she can not gaurantee what it will look like, whether or not it will flow nicely or evenly. I dont know what to do, now im even worried our guests will think im too formal or something...any advice? & sorry in advance for the ramble

[Saraha]

I think as a girl we are so worried at our dress and will our FI like it. But in my case, cant really speak for anyone else. The Dress will be the last thing on his mind. I have a feeling that day kevin will be so wrapped up in emotions and this and that that of course how ill think you are beautiful no matter what. As long as you love the dress I say go for it.

[Betsy]

IMO FI isn't going to care how much tulling is in it or if it is beachy enough! He is going to be looking at his beautiful bride and he will think you look amazing no matter what you wear!! I think there is another post on this somewhere b/c believe me, I was sooo worried about FI not liking my dress either! I even showed him 4 pics of different dresses (with mine in there) and asked him to rate them! Mine fell in the middle - which totally made me freak out - sometimes I still do - but as long as you like it and feel beautiful in it that is all that matters! Do you have pics of yourself in it yet?

[boscobel]

I am having the opposite fears - that my dress is too slinky and not bridal enough for what Matt woudl think. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my dress, but I have been worried lately that it won't be what he would've wanted me to wear.

[DreaW]

Angela, I'm positive that you will look beautiful in your dress and that Anthony will love you in it. Most men don't really care about the dress but the person in it. so don't you worry.

[Yari]

I think your fears are normal. Don't fret, you will look beautiful and your FI will be in awe of your beauty.

[angitalia23]

Thank you everyone for calming me down when i freak out- seriously I appreciate it so much!

 

Carly- your dress is beautiful! It's perfect, I loved the pics!

Besty- I dont have pics but as soon as i get them, ill post!

[boscobel]

Thanks, Angela. See, though, that's the trouble. If I didn't think it ws perfect, I wouldn't've bought it, just like yours is perfect for you. I am just scared that it isn't going to be perfect for him. Ya know what I mean?

 

Then I also know that they love us and they are marrying us and they don't care what we wear! Most likely, they think all the dresses look the same anyway! Girls are such over-anaylzers.

[azhuskergirl]

I can completely empathize with you. I often wonder about what my fiance will think (if he hasn't already snuck a peek in one of my file folders on the computer labeled "Susan's dress - do not peek!"), but I am sure he'll be happy with whatever I wear.

 

He'll love what you're wearing, I guarantee it.

[angitalia23]

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Originally Posted by carly Thanks, Angela. See, though, that's the trouble. If I didn't think it ws perfect, I wouldn't've bought it, just like yours is perfect for you. I am just scared that it isn't going to be perfect for him. Ya know what I mean? Then I also know that they love us and they are marrying us and they don't care what we wear! Most likely, they think all the dresses look the same anyway! Girls are such over-anaylzers.

I totally understand what your saying Carly, I know guys dont even pay attention to half of the details we do for a wedding dress.
My FMIL told me in a nice way that Im analyzing everything way too much...lol..its in my nature!