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Forget the wine and go straight to the vodka! We all can completely understand your stress and worries! But try not to freak out (I know, easier said than done) because you are about to marry the love of your life. Just breathe, and have a nice hard drink wink.gif You'll be fine! We promise!

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Like others have said I loved what I read in your thread about what you bought for your OOTs. You have done a great job and your wedding will be magnificent! Take some time for yourself then some time for you and your FI. Maybe look at your resort website and dream of being there so soon for the best day of your life!smile03.gif

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remember its about marrying the man you love and loves you. its about the rest of life together. people are going to remember your love for each other, not the OOT bags!

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That's right, people are coming because they love and support you and your FI. OOT bags are not the reason they are traveling. I think they sound wonderful and will be a welcome surprise.

 

Put the wedding stuff away for a few minutes and give yourself some breathing room. Think of all the things you've accomplished so far to give yourself some perspective!

 

I'm going to have to mark this thread because I'm sure I will be feeling the same way 16 days before my wedding! At least you have your dress! Mine is on back order and not even supposed to be in until about a week before we leave!

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Don't worry. Everything is going to be just fine. Fantastic, even.

 

This is just normal anxiety, and it will pass. Have that glass of wine. Talk with us. Call your MOH. Call your mom. Call FI. Get the planning stuff off your desk (or kitchen table), put your feet up and take a breather.

 

Your wedding day is going to be the envy of everyone here, so don't you worry about it for another minute.

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Originally Posted by carlymcmullen View Post
Awwww, I read your post about whaty ou bought and I think everything sounded great and I would love to receive them as a gift! So don't you worry, everything will be fine. Breath deep, and perhaps locate a bottle of wine.
Thanks! And yes, I cannot wait to get home so I can have a drink and calm down...

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Speaking of talking to my MOH.. Her and my BMs have been one of my biggest problems.. I've felt like I've been doing everything on my own and not getting any help from anyone. My MOH completely forgot about my bridal shower and I'm the one who made and sent out the invitations for it!! It's crazy I tell ya.

I did talk to my fiance though and he, of course, calmed me down and made me feel better about things.. I just need to stop fretting and remember what this is all about..

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You poor thing! Missouri's not that far from Iowa ya know (where I live) I would be more than happy to bring the wine LOL!! You will be fine - don't worry and just like all the other girls said - everyone will love your oot bags and it is really about you and your FI! smile03.gif

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You poor thing! Missouri's not that far from Iowa ya know (where I live) I would be more than happy to bring the wine LOL!! You will be fine - don't worry and just like all the other girls said - everyone will love your oot bags and it is really about you and your FI! smile03.gif
LOL sounds good to me.. you may need me to do the same for you in a couple of months!

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