I personally think you only get married once. (At least that is the way it's supposed to be). So enjoy the attention of friends and family and oh even gifts. Think about all the baby showers, birthdays, weddings, etc that you have bought your friends gifts for. Now I know it's not about the gifts. But you should definitely enjoy the parties with friend and family. Live it up and enjoy the attention while it lasts. You can never get this time back!