Well, in terms of the wedding dress, jewellery, hair, make up, I know what those costs will be. But I am wondering what resorts charge for the actual wedding. What I do know is the following... - I want a beach or gazebo ceremony - I want the reception to be private, not in a restaurant with other vacationers - I want to rent a sound system but will bring my own music - I want an open bar (from what I understand, this is ridiculously expensive considering we are at an AI resort... but oh well...) - I want (if possible) to extend the timing of the reception... I know that some resorts give you the reception for 4 hours or something like that, I don't want to be limited like that if at all possible - I will probably find my own photographer instead of using the resort, as many pictures I have seen taken by resort photographers are a bit cheesy, although I haven't looked that hard yet so I may be wrong... Again, I know this is asking a lot, but I am just wondering what ballpark I am in for this.... $10,000... $20,000... $30,000??? I have NO clue right now Thanks again!!