Ladies, the April brides have a strong thread so I joing them too. I just posted my planning to them and wanted to share with you as well as I look for more ideas. I get married May 28th at the Royal Cancun. After I started to following the April brides you guys, I realized that is sooooooo much to do. LOL. What I've done so far: 1. Website www.mywedding.com/nigelana 2. Bought a white aisle runner and will place lavender petals (the resort only has red carpet and I want everything to be matching 3. sent my invitations 4. Order handcriefs for the girls of the bridal party (I already know they will all be crying LOL) 5. Order engraved flask for the males briday party (will post the engraved picture when I get home) 6. I'll be having a cocktail hour at the beach, so the first order give away to guests will be the sleepers I'm in a seach of my dress and went to 1 place already, but got so depressed with the way I look. I gained so much weight, tried 10 dresses and all looked horrible in my body. I need to start working on a diet plan for me this week because I don't want to cry anymore This weekend, my plans are: joining the gym work on welcome totes with first aid, t-shirts, koozies, etc and see what other ideas you've shared so I have a better, stronger and more sucessful planning I can't thank you all enough for all ideas and sharing your feelings. I feel the same way as you all