Hey Melissa, I am having the same problem. I don't want to dictate what we do the entire time, but I feel like I should have things planned. I am thinking that I may have the smores bonfire on Thursday, welcome party (with cigar roller) on Friday and then wedding on sat. Also, I found blow up beer pong tables online so on Sunday, most of our friends are staying we may have a tourney in the pool! One month to go you must be so excited! What did you think of your site visit? Getting worried about not having been to ABH! Kerry