I felt exactly like that. I looked around as much as I could on my own, but it was just getting overwhelming because of the amount of choices. I didn't make any headway until I hired a travel agent. I looked for one that specializes in destination weddings. I told her what was important to me (and I didn't really have that many specifics other than it needed to be a family resort, all-inclusive, beachy, and something my guests could afford), and she was able to narrow it down quickly for me. We zeroed in on Riviera Maya, and then she gave me her recommendations. I had sticker shock for a while, and then got over it. I just didn't want it to be too expensive for my guests, but I also wanted it to be a nice place where I would be happy having my wedding. Anyway, it doesn't cost anything to get a TA, so I would do that for sure if I were you. They are a big help as far as finding a place. Once you have a place, the TA will work out a contract for the discounted room rates, with specific booking timeframe, estimated number of rooms, and then your guests can book directly through them and you won't need to worry about any of the travel arrangements. Also, if you get with a TA, they get prices for you right now. I booked my November 2011 wedding in September, so you definitely don't have to wait until after the new year. Anyway, good luck! Don't give up.....you are in the right place at BDW, the brides here are super helpful! Feel free to contact me if I can help in any way!