Thanks ladies, I feel a huge sense of obligation to make the experience a grand one for all of the people that are spending all this money to be a part of my beautiful day. I'm not complaining just wondering if others felt the same. Day 1- I'm having the welcome dinner by the pool w/appetizers, open bar and steel drum band. Day 2- We are paying for all of our guest to do a catamaran cruise which includes drinks and snorkeling Day 3- Rehearsal dinner Wedding Day- DJ, dove release, cocktail hour w/appetizers and open bar, dinner, beach party with fire dancers, dance floor on the beach and lounge furniture (my grandma's need to sit lol) Plus I'm doing the OOT bags, passport welcome books and program books by Rebecca. Parasols, sashes, fans, runners and flowers. To me all of this is the norm I suppose I just didn't expect the price to continue to add up lol....so naive! Just so happy I had all of the BDW ladies to help me with this experience. I would be so lost without all of you and your amazing ideas!