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Quote: Originally Posted by futuremrsgoodrich Congratulations on your wedding! Did you end up prepaying? Did you have any trouble have a sit down dinner reception without advanced notice? They are so well put together Everything turned out awesome. I posted a full review - if you search "Beaches Negril Review" it should come up. http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...-review-58542/ We did end up pre-paying for some things, like 4 days before we left. We waited until we got there to do the photography, and we upgraded my bouquet (which was a little expensive) but worth it! I think if we had a smaller group, we wouldn't have worried about it, but I definitely noticed that since we were a larger group they were a little more particular. Understandable. There was also a wedding the same day with almost 100 people!!!! So here we thought we were a big party with 30! Ha - not so much! They actually got some good spaces automatically because they were such a large group. It all worked out in the end!

Good call on Trip Advisor reports! While it is impossible to avoid a few mishaps or expect an absolutely perfect experience, part of traveling is being in a new place, where things may not always be as you expect it. I could not believe the reports I read about our resort. It freaked us out a little and we had to ban reading reviews after a while. Some people have nothing better to do than complain right? I mean c'mon, look at the beaches in these beautiful tropical paradises we all visited, is it really that bad?!? Take it with a grain of salt, and tequila, is a perfect saying Tara!!! Love it! Luckily - with Trip Advisor and this website, I think we can all shine light on the honest truth about these resorts! Hope vacation location and resort hunting goes well Tracy!

Ladies, I love the pics! Everyone looks so wonderful. Congrats to all the MRS. out there (no more single ladies ;-) i know we are all going thru vacation withdrawl big time. I was laid off in august last year, right after we booked the wedding, so we were hoping to take an actual honeymoon after we returned. I think we have to wait for that. If we go to Florida in Sept. we will probably go to Orlando to see his family and nieces. They are a really fun age now too so it would be a nice change from CO fall weather. I finally figured out how to add a pic to my profile (haha -- only took me 7 months!!) Here is the link to our professional wedding pics too by the resort photographer: http://share.shutterfly.com/share/re...0EYsWzVs0aMXJw I am pretty happy with everything. We were a little rushed for pics when the sun was setting, but she got some awesome shots! hope everyone is having a good week!

Thank you all so much! It was a big dress but I loved it too much! Hot and sweaty, trust me, but worth it! I will try to get a folder of the resort photos we took loaded this week too. All the shutterfly ones in the link are the actual resort photographer too. While they are all not my particular style, I would have picked something different if we were married in Colorado, overall thought she got great portrait shots. Some of my friends took fun detail shots for me too. I was pretty happy with all the pictures she took. I'll let you know how the wedding book turns out too. They seemed pretty nice in the consultation and gift shop. All in all, it was THE BEST day and I know that I worried about a few things before we left, but honestly, it all worked out so perfectly in the end. I wish we could go back! Oh, also I am in the midst of trying to find out name change information, in our city/county it is apparently not so easy to use foreign documents. Just a heads up to look into any specifics before you go about the Jamaican documents b/c you might have to go to JP or do a common law anyways. I wasn't expecting that, but turns out our city/county has some interesting rules. Anyways -- let me know if there is anything else! I will try to get our other resort photos / rehearsal dinner photos up before the weekend!

http://share.shutterfly.com/share/re...0EYsWzVs0aMXJw I don't know if this link will work, but here is the link to the professional photos we got 210 digital negatives and the 12x12 book. Let me know if the link works or not!

Quote: Originally Posted by Julie H Thanks for the good review. Just wondering where in the ceremony you did the readings. I've been trying to get the answer from Renee and she will not give me a straight answer. I'm trying to do a program and figure out some sort of order. This is a tough one!! Renee sent me the 3 or 4 potentially different versions of the ceremony that can happen. I just had to play it by ear, and did the readings back to back. I looked over all the types of ceremonies and how they go and just said "f- it" if it didn't go exactly in order I wasn't going to fret. This is how i broke it down. Prelude Processional Welcoming and Introduction Reading by groomsman Reading by maid of honor Exchange of Vows Blessing of the Rings Exchange of the Rings Pronouncement of Marriage Recessional

Quote: Originally Posted by BritniC Congrats!! Your wedding sounds awesome!! Just wondering, for your rehearsal dinner were all your guests there or just your wedding party?? Also what kind of food did they serve for the rehearsal?? We invited everyone that was in our group to come, wedding party, family and guests. Aside from a few friends, the majority of people there were the wedding party, dates/husbands/wives, or family members. We would have excluded like 8 people and that seemed silly. So we had everyone that was staying at the Beaches come. Oh, and by random chance, 2 guests who were at Sandals Negril happened to walk up as we were all gathering to go the dinner. We didn't technically invite them, just b/c they were at a Sandals up the road, but it randomly worked out so they joined us too. The food was a buffet line - a huge variety, salads, fish, chicken, pastas and a whole variety of deserts too. The bar was a FULL open bar (funny b/c the wedding reception was only beer and wine? weird!!!) I think if you qualify for this or want to purchase this, you can ask your coordinator for the food menus and they will send you a file with all the options. This was one of the perks we got as a group since we booked 10+ rooms. Worked out really well b/c we passed out our family and wedding party gifts, and my parents make a little speech. It was nice for people to get to know each other too.

Hahaha! All of us ladies are craving another beach vacation so bad! My husband is on the phone right now with his sister, who lives in Florida. We go out there often to do the beach and cruises. Thinking we are going to book something for Sept for sure!!! I have heard Curacao and Aruba are below the hurricane belt and since they are in the Carribbean, you get the beach without as much hurricane worry! Look it up!

Oooh, sorry guys. Sand fleas -- yes they exist, bring tons of Off and bite cream. Some of our guests had reactions to them, like they were bit and the bite marks turned red and dime sized. the nurse on site said they had a disposition or allergy to them. My sister in law had them but used a salt scrub and said it helped a lot. I used bug bite spray religiously, very little perfume and unscented lotion. I noticed I had been bitten, but didn't have any itches (until I got home... now they are itchy!) Guests -- we had 36 guests total: 32 adults (4 stayed at different sandals resorts) 4 children, 1 was an infant. Please let me know if there were other questions I didn't answer! Working on uploading our photos to shutterfly to share too!

Quote: Originally Posted by katie424 Ladies, l just returned from our wedding at Beaches Negril Jamaica, and let me start by saying you have very little to worry about, if anything at all! Flights: We took the overnight flight, it was fine. Got to Jamaica at 9-10 ish in the morning. Made it through customs just fine, and got our bags. The Beaches/Sandals lounge is really nice (forewarning - small bathrooms. Side note, I took my carryon suitcase in there with me, b/c I wasn't thinking it would be a small restroom. Very tiny! Very nice, but small. If you want to change or put on contacts or anything, just take it out of your bag first). The beer / drinks they serve are in small cocktail cups too, so if you want to take it for the ride, bring your own bottle to fill up. Our driver didn't mind Oh, and we were in the Beaches/Sandals lounge for like 5 minutes only, then they took us to the bus. We were on the bus for about 10 minutes before we actually took off... Bus Ride to Resort: Very interesting to see the city, the driving is a bit scary if you are nervous about that but the island attitude is laid back, and they know what they are doing, so don't be worried. It was about an hour or so to the pit stop. There was a family with our group (we had 6 adults, my husband, and my 2 bridesmaids with their husbands) and then a family of 5 on the same bus. They were probably annoyed with the pit stop, but it was fun to stop and get a beer and grab one for the road too. Resort / Check-in: Absolutely beautiful entry, scenery, grounds when you arrive. Seriously! Just stunning. Check-in was smooth, we were in the concierge level room so we were in the special check in room. It was nice - definitely try the rum punch - strong and delicious! The rooms weren't quite ready yet, so we changed into our suits and then grabbed some food. Our rooms were ready within about 20 minutes, so we took everything to our room, put on sunblock and headed to the pool. Room: We were in room 718 - a beachfront suite. It was perfect. Large seating area, big TV, mini fridge, microwave (not sure what for) King bed, giant bathroom / closet area with 2 sinks. This is a great room to get if you plan to have all your bridesmaids getting ready together. Plenty of space to breathe. The decor was mostly updated, and very nice. Everything had a nice Tommy Bahama feel to it all. More to follow!!!! Okay - sorry ladies! Here's where I left off: Beach Gorgeous, unbeatable by far! Such a pretty stretch of beach and probably the calmest area too. Beaches is the last resort on the north side and then Couples Swept Away is next door. We could hear some of their music late at night from our room but it didn't bother me. Might annoy other people but I sleep pretty heavy. Restaurants The Mill -- Great buffet, ate here daily for breakfast and they have lots of options. Had lunch here often too, very good selections of hot and cold food plus a decent salad bar Last Chance Saloon -- Had dinner here 1 time and lunch once too. The lunch time wraps and chicken jerk were tasty. It wasn't the fastest service, but that day we didn't mind since we needed some breaks from the sun. Kimonos -- AWESOME!! We ate here twice and the second time was even better than the first. We had a lively group too which made it more fun. We were singing with our chef Roy and just having a blast. Took a shrimp to the eyeball too, missed my mouth, it was pretty funny (happy that there were no spices on it though, could have been a hot mess!) Seville -- Okay so at the Seville the food was really good, great service, but the day we decided to eat there they moved it to the beach for some reason, for the rest of our trip?!? Not sure if they were doing remodels to the indoor area or what. Would have been nice to see what the inside looked like, but overall the food was good. A few people from our trip had reactions to the sand fleas (see info below) so they didn't want to go eat in the sand area. Have to respect that. We ended up not using our reservation for our couples dinner the last night at the Seville and went to Kimonos instead. But we also wanted to see some of our guests, not big deal to us. Snack Shop near Last Chance -- GREAT pizza! Lots of choices for a quick burger, pizza, fries, that kind of snack food. Good option if you are on that side of the resort, or want a quick meal. Food in General A+ We read some reviews on Trip Advisor and probably here too that the food was so - so. I disagree. So does my husband, and he is a particular food person. He was really happy to find the food to be really seasoned well and just great. The Resort Grounds A+++ EMMACLUATE - from the street, you can tell there is a resort, but everything is filled in with gardens, plants, seriously it is beautiful everywhere you go. WEDDING DETAILS -- I worked with Renee in Miami. I thought she was very nice, not too pushy. A little bit at the end, but we had a pretty large group, so I think it made everyone a little nervous to know what we were picking. We pre-paid for the reception, flowers, DJ and the Beautiful Beginning package and extra tables. Note, we pre-paid about a week before we left... Simone helped us in Jamaica, she is lovely! Very nice, funny and worked hard to fulfill all our requests. We picked our photography package there. Found the digital books to be really great and negotiated to get the digital negatives so we can make our own books too. Rehearsal Dinner A+ We got this for free b/c of our group size. Really nice set up. This was on the far end of the beach near the water sports, set up under one of the thatch huts. Full bar, great food options, deserts everything was fantastic. We got there right as the sun was setting, so be ready with your camera - got some awesome sunset photos. Wedding Day A+++ I stayed with one of my bridesmaids that night and started to get ready in her room before we moved to our room once the new hubby left. Hung my dress up to un-wrinkle in a different bridesmaid room and she and her husband transported it over to the room. We finished getting ready and just in the nick of time. We were all done, the photographer, Nicola, showed up and started taking shots of us getting ready. Simone called and said she would be there in 2 minutes, 15 minutes later she did come to get us. (I found out later that the guys were standing at the gazebo staring at all the guests for like 20 minutes - hot and awkward). So I am not sure what the hold up was... we were ready, just taking pictures, but Simone never came when she said, so who knows. We were comfortable, but the guests were sitting in the heat. (I had brought raffia fans and set them out with the wedding programs - highly recommend this if you get married in the afternoon, guests really liked it.) Salon B+ I got a mani/pedi free with the group rate, but had acrylics on my fingers, so didn't take the mani. I had the pedi, it was great (although I think they must make commission on product sales b/c my lady kept getting me to buy a special foot cream). NOTE: They charged me $5.00 to do a french pedi which I thought was ridiculous especially since I didn't take the mani, but oh well, just a heads up. The salon is in the spa which is really nice! I had a friend do my hair so I didn't get my hair done in the salon. However there was a bride and others getting their hair done and it looked really good. 2 of my bridesmaids had their hair done as well too, and it looked awesome. Held the curls all day too! Wedding! Wedding was at 3pm. Wedding was awesome. We managed not to see each other all day long, when I came around the corner and saw him for the first time, it was great. We got married at the Gazebo. Liked the location the best and hoped it would be the shadiest location. Ceremony was great, we had 2 readings along with the normal run through. Music was good, everything went smooth. Immediately after the wedding they took the whole group to the beach for some photos, I realized later that there was a 4pm wedding right after us, of like 100 people. Our reception location was the garden area directly behind the wedding gazebo, so they kind of ushered our group away from the wedding zone for about an hour. It didn't dawn on me why they had the whole group stay out on the sand even after the 1 group shot was taken until I saw the other wedding starting. Then I realized they probably didn't want us in the area during the other wedding, which makes sense. (Side note, we picked the garden b/c this other wedding group already had the large thatch hut on the beach due to their group size. There was a nice patio area attached to the mill that we could have selected, but the 2 receptions were essentially right by each-other. And this area was right by the pool too. We decided to use the garden area for more privacy. So we could have told our group to go to one of the bars until we were done but nobody told us they wouldn't be allowed in the reception area.) It was hot, but most of the group took shade under a little smaller thatch umbrella thing until they were ready for us. Reception B+ We picked a 2 hour reception with a buffet food set up. The food was delicious, and there was a desert bar too (sadly we didn't even see this b/c they brought us plates of food so we didn't hardly go look at the food - we saw it in wedding the photos the next day -- haha!) Music and set up was great, tables were very nice. BB package would have been lovely, but they didn't have the order of orchids in time (I asked for white instead of the purple). So we got white roses instead. It was still very nice (might have been because we paid so close to leaving??) Only words of advice, this is why we say B+ As soon as they had us walk in they introduced the wedding party, then we walked in, then they started our 1st dance, we didn't even really know what was going on, so we were super thirsty and hadn't even had a moment to unwind, so we danced and had them fade the music out so we could relax for a minute. After that they wanted to immediately do all the other formalities, but hubby said, let us eat, take it down a notch, let us breathe, then we will figure out when to do the rest. We should have asked more about how the whole thing was to flow, or told them what we wanted. After we ate, we ran to the beach, took more sunset photos (really awesome) came back, did the toasts and the cake cutting, 1st dance with my Dad and then we did a dance with my Grandpa, brothers.... then it was last call and the final song!!!! It flew by so fast! Especially with photos being taken. We should have extended the DJ and the bar and just enjoyed the whole experience a little longer, but didn't realize it would go so fast! We all gathered at the piano bar after we changed, but it was hot and crowded. Oh - another pointer... we were set up under these white tents, no air movement. My grandpa was there but has a hard time in the humidity. They brought a huge fan over, but on request. I would ask them to set this up either way b/c it really helped. Breakfast in Bed A+ You fill out this card during your coordination session. It was delivered on time and was delicious - we got omeletes. So good. Mimosas too! Photographers were really good Nicola did the shots and Collin did the video. They did really well and were flexible with our schedules especially when we said can we slow it down a notch. They hung out until we were ready. I liked the photos. I worried about this the most but they turned out very well. some of the shots were silly or really "posed" but none of them look bad. We were a little rushed so they were all on the beach. If we had started our reception later, and told the guests to get drinks at one of the bar, that might have been better, rather than all of them waiting around, but all in hindsight! I will try to get a shutterfly link up soon. you can email me if you have other questions too - happy to help! [email protected] Good luck ladies and let me know if there is anything else you have questions about. It was the best experience ever, we had the best time and wouldn't change it for the world! Best advice, worry a little less and enjoy the experience! Everything worked out for us just perfect.

Ladies, l just returned from our wedding at Beaches Negril Jamaica, and let me start by saying you have very little to worry about, if anything at all! Flights: We took the overnight flight, it was fine. Got to Jamaica at 9-10 ish in the morning. Made it through customs just fine, and got our bags. The Beaches/Sandals lounge is really nice (forewarning - small bathrooms. Side note, I took my carryon suitcase in there with me, b/c I wasn't thinking it would be a small restroom. Very tiny! Very nice, but small. If you want to change or put on contacts or anything, just take it out of your bag first). The beer / drinks they serve are in small cocktail cups too, so if you want to take it for the ride, bring your own bottle to fill up. Our driver didn't mind Oh, and we were in the Beaches/Sandals lounge for like 5 minutes only, then they took us to the bus. We were on the bus for about 10 minutes before we actually took off... Bus Ride to Resort: Very interesting to see the city, the driving is a bit scary if you are nervous about that but the island attitude is laid back, and they know what they are doing, so don't be worried. It was about an hour or so to the pit stop. There was a family with our group (we had 6 adults, my husband, and my 2 bridesmaids with their husbands) and then a family of 5 on the same bus. They were probably annoyed with the pit stop, but it was fun to stop and get a beer and grab one for the road too. Resort / Check-in: Absolutely beautiful entry, scenery, grounds when you arrive. Seriously! Just stunning. Check-in was smooth, we were in the concierge level room so we were in the special check in room. It was nice - definitely try the rum punch - strong and delicious! The rooms weren't quite ready yet, so we changed into our suits and then grabbed some food. Our rooms were ready within about 20 minutes, so we took everything to our room, put on sunblock and headed to the pool. Room: We were in room 718 - a beachfront suite. It was perfect. Large seating area, big TV, mini fridge, microwave (not sure what for) King bed, giant bathroom / closet area with 2 sinks. This is a great room to get if you plan to have all your bridesmaids getting ready together. Plenty of space to breathe. The decor was mostly updated, and very nice. Everything had a nice Tommy Bahama feel to it all. More to follow!!!!

Future Beaches Brides -- we just returned from our wedding - of course to 50 degree weather, sad. I will post another review in a different section as well, but just wanted everyone to know that it is a remarkable resort, the wedding was fantastic, and beautiful. They really have it down well to accommodate nearly anything you could imagine and I wouldn't change a thing!

ebredhawk -- about the wedding dress. my mom works for the airlines and said it is better to actually see if your wedding shop can pack it in a carryon suitcase. I know that might be a little tricky given other potential items you want to carry, but she said the closets they want to hang them in are a little sketchy. My dress is pretty big and they said it was no problem to pack it in a suitcase. I knew I would be steaming it one way or the other. my other thought about a garment bag is that if it got laid down in the overheads somebody might put a suitcase on top of it which would freak me out! Good luck! I get my dress in the suitcase Monday or Tuesday so I can try to let you know if it seems do-able.

April Brides! Congrats to all who are on their way or already been down the aisle! We leave in 6 days and I cannot wait! Sorry to hear of the Drama tara - that stinks! Just focus on the good things and the better friends in life! I am non-frequent poster, frequent reader, but I agree this board is so shhhh now, can't have anything to do with our wedding month, right? Well, we are getting the final items for gift bags this weekend, sent our pre-travel letters and most people got them today, saying they loved them. We finished the programs this past weekend, except a few ribbons, ran out of the color. I just have my last list of beauty items to do... my eyebrows need to be waxed so bad, not even funny! Then we are off to Jamaica! Hope the wedding month is going well for all and Happy Weddings!

Quote: Originally Posted by *Meagan* Katie- I was married at Beaches T&C but we paid for everything there! Believe me you do not need to pre pay. The Miami planners push that so they can make commission. We paid for our videographer when we got there. If your using their photog you can book that there as well. If you are wanting to do the 3 hour reception.. I think you may want to book that before you go. So you can plan but beautiful beginnings is simple and usually doesnt need to be paid for. Im confused have you not chosen your ceremony time yet? Thank you! We do have our wedding time set for 3pm. We have more than 10 rooms booked so we are a group and a lot of the wedding fees were waived. We are just in the state of mind that it will be better to see the resort and feel how the day feels before we finalize everything. We have a good idea in mind what we want (probably a 2 hour reception) but have a hard time paying non-refundable $$ site-unseen. Especially if we decide to do just a cocktail reception and then go to one of the restaurants as a group. We plan to have a reception, so there is some privacy, but with a 3pm wedding we have some flexibility. I generally know what we "plan" on in our minds, but if it is not what we expected then we are out all that money. I know that is the nature of the destination wedding, and we are thrilled to be doing one, but just hesitant to drop the dough before we get there and take it all in! Anyone else experienced anything that they wish they would have pre-booked and didn't? PS Meagan -- I saw your wedding pix/review you looked stunning!

Past Beaches Brides - I am in need of help! We are getting into the final week before we leave and are still SUPER hesitant to prepay for anything. We just feel like we need to see the resort locations, get the "feel" of the resort we give them a bunch of money, non-refundable too! What items did you pre-pay for and what items did you wait on? Did you find that everything was still available even if you didn't pre-pay or plan on getting the items, (i.e. reception, DJ, etc.) We generally know what we want to do, time frames etc, but we don't want to pay until we see things. Thoughts? Experiences?

yay!!! Happy Wedding Month Ladies! I bet a lot of you are leaving in only a few weeks - so congratulations and have a lovely wedding and trip! I wanted to pass on a bit of helpful name change information: MissNowMrs Online Married Name Change Service It is a website that essentially walks you through the entire name change process, fills out all your forms and then you print PDF's with instruction sheets for each one! there are 2 prices $20 or $30 which is not bad at all. I am going to check to be sure they can accept foreign wedding documents - but I know a lot of us probably have to get a local marriage certificate anyways so it may not matter. Hope it is helpful -- and Happy Weddings to all! Looking forward to seeing pix and reviews ;-)

Thank you for posting your review! It is so helpful for us soon to be Mrs. at Beaches! We are 1 month away officially from today and still having trouble deciding on things, so it is good to see photos and know that we can ultimately pick things when we arrive. Thank you so much and you looked stunning too!

This thread has been quiet for a few months, but I struggled with the same questions. I originally booked our wedding for 1pm but when I started going through the planning process with the wedding dept. the 3pm time slot was open, so we took that instead. Our invitations and things were already printed, but we decided who cares, we'd rather be comfortable and have a better flow to the day. See if any time slots have changed on your day if you are worried!

Quote: Originally Posted by hoyt75 Tracy - I've been thinking about the something new, old, borrowed and blue... Our colors are navy blue and white, and I'll be carrying a bouquet of white calla lilie's and the stems will be wrapped in navy blue ribbon, so that takes care of the blue. Something new is the the new life together. Something old will be my grandmothers wedding band that my mom is giving to me on our weddind day. I'm a little stuck on the something borrowed part. What are you girls borrowing?? Any suggestions?? Do you have a veil yet? Or -- if a close friend / sister / sister in law has been married and they had a nice hair piece accessory you could look at borrowing that? I saw a cute idea that could combine almost all: old, borrowed and blue -- if somebody in your family has a nice brooch/pin you can pin it to the underside of your dress with a blue ribbon - then it knocks off most of the list -- or you could buy a new brooch and pin the blue ribbon under your dress. I've gotten off topic a little here... sorry! Here's mine: Old: Necklace and earrings Borrowed: necklace and earrings - unless I can borrow another piece of jewelry Blue: necklace and earrings (they have a blue diamond in the middle) New: dress and shoes

This is the chattiest group out there indeed! :-) amcarter, your FI is right - these people are adults, and if they are on the fence or haven't booked, you can't feel bad when you provided them plenty of information as well as deadlines. If they end up booking, politely let them know you are happy they'll be joining you. At the end of the day, if their gift bags are slightly different, or their accommodations are slightly less convenient, it is not your fault. You have done all the right things up til now! Somehow when it became March I realized the phrases "oh, the wedding is in a few months" is oh-so irrelevant now that it is NEXT MONTH!!! I am super excited and a little nervous all at the same time! Here is my progress so far: Dress Ordered (fittings begin next week only one issue - see my rant / vent below) Several shoe options picked - heel height TBD with dress hem No veil - need to find hair flower Picking out FI's suit this weekend then will coordinate the groom's men's suits 95% of invites are sent, had to get some updated addresses for the rest Meet with AHR venue in 2 weeks to finalize details (mid-afternoon affair, so we are keeping it simple) Researched OOT bags and items, need to start ordering all items Bridal shower and Bachelorette party was last weekend (so much fun!) PS I highly recommend registering. I felt guilty since we are doing the wedding away, but people were really happy to have a reason to celebrate us! Need to make and design the programs (i have all the tools to do that) and then have then get the raffia fans Need to finalize which decor we are bringing to accentuate the Beautiful Beginnings pkg. We have to add 4 tables so we are trying to keep it simple already but still have some personal touches. Need to finalize wedding party gifts and family gifts Need to finalize special readings during the ceremony (my matron of honor gave me a great book called "Words for the Wedding" it is mostly quotes, but it gives a good idea about readings and styles / topics) Okay, here is my vent/rant - I ordered my dress in August, its been here since January, but I was really distracted at my viewing b/c my grandma was coming and was running late. I totally forgot to bring shoes to test hem heights AND totally didn't pay attention to the fact that my corset dress cannot be cinched any tighter. I am generally the same weight pretty consistently, when I lose weight I lose it consistently. I maybe have lost 5 lbs. Now I am afraid I am going to be hit with a huge alterations fee because they will probably need to bring the dress in about 4 inches! I feel like this is their fault - I told them I would be a few lbs smaller when I ordered and I liked the corset b/c it is adjustable. Plus the detailing on the top of the dress is pretty complicated and I am afraid they will charge more because it is not a simple fabric. Sigh ---- I don't want to be "that bride" who complains, but I am a little pissed. I don't want to spend another several hundred dollars on this!!! Anybody else dealing with this too? Sorry this is a long post, but it is good to double check the lists! Onward and upward I suppose ;-)

Yes! thank you for the information - I am getting married at Beaches Negril in 7 weeks (OMG -- where did the 18 month engagement go?!!!!) Thanks so much for the reviews and information. It is nice to read current reviews since the packages have changed. Very helpful for all of us especially now that the wedding is not that far away! I'll be sure to post a ton of info too when I return - pass along the favor that all of you other BDW brides have too! Congratulations!

shortnsweet - SO sorry to hear of your scary dog situation. We have a 2-year old boston terrier, who is currently curled up on my lap right now but still whining at me b/c I am typing, not petting her -- haha! I am glad your dogs are okay and surely will be too at their doggie day care. I know our little dog is our baby. I can't imagine how scary that is! Ebredhawk - hang in there with the court cases. I'll be keeping my finger crossed that things go in your favor, and hopefully giving you a few weeks to spare before your trip. I think everyone is right, J's daughter will grow up and eventually realize that you and J have her best interests in mind and perhaps her mother is just using her as a bargaining chip. So sad to hear that kids have to go through this! I hope she can go and see what a wonderful union marriage really is! Tracy -- ooo la la! Okay A) you are in darn good shape lady! ** jealous ** and The black outfit is super sexy! He is going to love them! jerseykitten -- good tip on the packets vs the medicine bottles. Definitely going to order some of those! PS -- thank goodness, my flight that was supposed to be the day after the bachelorette party is pushed a few days later! Yay!!! That will be one less thing to stress about!

Wow. I have been a little out of the loop... until Sunday when my mom stopped by. We have so few weekends before the wedding, not to mention the AHR. Geeze, sometimes I wonder what I've been doing. Luckily I remind myself that after all, this Destination Wedding thing is soooo much less planning than anything else, and because of the guest lists and trip-booking guest counts, it comes down to the last few months, right? So, I know I don't post much, but read a lot, I feel like a silent observer! jerseykitten, I hope your ear infection clears up soon. I know when I get sick I just feel out of place, so hoping for a quick recovery! caribbeanlover -- hopefully your boudoir session was great and the bars opened just in time to give you the right buzz! Lord knows we need a little motivation to look and feel so sexy in front of the camera! And even though your room issue has probably been super stressful, just remember you have documentation, ask to speak with the next level higher of supervisor and don't budge or settle for less than you are comfortable with. I have been reading a lot about our resort and essentially everyone says bring all your paperwork because it doesn't matter if its just you and 2 guests or 200 they still mess up rooms (I realize that is during check in versus ahead of time, but still - stick to your guns lady!) But, we sill have a list of things to do in 2 months: Invitations are in, FI is out of town for work, so that is my time to catch up and address everything. I want them mailed by Monday next week. Need to meet with AHR venue for food menu (we probably will just do a DJ or an IPOD docking station with music + perhaps a photobooth photographer) and to generally set up the layout. We've previewed the location but are planning a pretty low key affair FI needs to go pick a suit. And then we need to coordinate groomsmen suits/attire. I have the BM dresses already and I think the flower girls too. So the guys just need to make them look good... haha. Kidding they all will look great in the end! I have a list of OOT bag items and have been researching a lot of sources saved in my bookmarks but I need to start ordering. I have to travel for work for about 10 days right after my bachelorette party, so that really takes a chunk out of our time-frame. Plus if things are back-ordered then I am going to be in trouble. Verify CO's marriage req't b/c another BDW Bride said Denver has weird req'ts. Breath, relax, breath :-) haha My shower is in a few weeks and so is my bachelorette party. But I might have to be on a plane for a work trip at 6am the morning after (or technically of) my bachelorette party. I am not a big drinker or party-er but hopefully I don't get on a plane as a hot mess. Luckily my company owner is a good friend and is flying with me for work too, so we will both be in the same boat (drunk) but we'll be together -- LOL. tee hee! Well ladies, I know I am quiet, but I am in the homestretch and am realizing my to do list is not so short! Soooo happy to have this board to keep me in check.

I have been so swamped, and now my schedule is a little more flexible. One of you ladies is getting married in May, a week after me and your little wedding ticker says "3 month, 2 weeks" EEEEEEK! That means I have less time! I haven't even made a to do list (looks like I know what I will be doing today). :-) My biggest freak out is the photography. I have heard mixed reviews, but I am in an out of contract work, so we are hesitant to book our own photographer to come because if money gets tight, we can just pick a less expensive package at the resort. What are you ladies doing for photography?