marryinghimagain

perturb: puberty

spinning: my head right now

brick: stick

parsley: players

yearly: hardly

UGLY (oops did I say that out loud?): MIL's personality

corks: rocks

scatter: flatter

lasagna: none better than mom's

cholera: locates

leader: dealer

crowd: crown

my favorite: Italian food

roads: doors

pitcher: chatter

delete: leader

Jaci, Your pics are beautiful! I am so happy to hear that you had an amazing time. Congratulations! Here's to a lifetime of happiness !

Quote: Originally Posted by echo2_62 Well I haven't officially received my confirmation number from Jacy yet, but we're in conversations to book for April 16, 2010!!! YAY! We're planning to go with the complimentary package for ours and sounds like we have some of the same ideas you do. We're planning to have our ceremony in the afternoon, do a cocktail reception and a first dance or two, then head off to dinner. Neither one of us is terribly formal so that's why we didn't opt for one of the higher packages. I'm hoping we can work something simple out with Jacy and when you do finally hear from her, I'd love to know what she says so I don't turn around and ask the same questions!! And if you don't seem to be getting the answers you need, I'd personally just get as specific as I possibly could for what I wanted and just keep at it. From what I've heard, everyone has had a great experience so even though I'm sure to have my stresses along the way, I think it'll all work out. My first hurdle is making sure everyone gets booked. We didn't go through a travel agent since the pricing seemed considerably higher than booking individually through a good tour operator. With guests coming from three different provinces though, I think it was just as easy this way. We'll see.... I will let you know what I find out. Hopefully, very soon, I can get the answers to all the questions and nail down all the details of everything. I just want it all set so I feel like I know what we are doing before we leave. (I will also do a full review after we get home from our trip.) We also booked everyone on our own. We have guests coming from three different states. It worked out just fine, actually I think it was MUCH easier than dealing with the TA we originally were going to have handle everything.

mother: thorns

clearly: reality

vote: a privilege

I don't have to even think twice about that one. For me, it would be a breast reduction. Oh, how I would love to have smaller boobs.

Wow, all the DPA brides are quiet lately. I had to go a few pages down to find our thread. Wake up, everybody. We have lots to do! lol On with my question.... has or is anyone just going with the complimentary wedding package that comes with the room bookings? I would love to hear how this worked out for you or what your details are. I right now have a deposit for the complimentary package but was considering the next higher package. However, I don't need/want all the things included in that package. We have a total of 17 (including us) people. I can't seem to justify the almost couple thousand extra (Ours is a vow renewal for our 35th anniversary but still want it to be very nice.) but I do want to have a private reception. As far as the cocktail hour, we can just go to one of the bars before dinner. I just don't know if by the time we pay for a private dinner and extra flowers (2 extra bouquets/2 bouts) if it will be close to the upgrade price anyhow Then there is the music issue. I know that we can use an Ipod but will that work for music in the gazebo for the ceremony? Can it be heard when we are walking down the aisle? Is there a place to plug in the docking station? The only things we really want are the cake and toast, a private dinner (would like it outside), the few attendant flowers and the smallest photography. I have my own decorations and small centerpieces, also an ipod if it is feasible. We would like to do a "first dance" at the private dinner. Did any of you do this when only having the "free" package? Geez, it seems like so many questions. I am starting to feel stressed that this is going to be a mess. I was hoping that maybe someone here has "been there, done that". I have emailed Jacy but never seem to get the answers I need. I am kinda scared to wait until we get there. I want to know what we are doing and be all organized. HELP!

See this is what I don't get. If you have not spoken or bothered with one another in years then why in heaven's name would she even WANT to attend your wedding!? People can be so ridiculous at times. I can't imagine why she would even remotely think for a second that she should be invited. I say, HELL NO! Stick to your guns if you don't want her there. What does your FI think about it?

peach: cheap