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Sorry I was confusing you with another Canadian bride who's going to Cuba haha, CONGRATS - and happy planning with your MEXICAN wedding

Hey again!

I have no big secrets I am sorry - I am big into eye-balling haha. Definitely screwed a few up, but I just re-did them. After I did a few I started getting a better idea of where to start writing depending on how long the person's name was. I tried to be consistent but honestly, some were slightly different than others (like which line the PC was on) but I figured ppl aren't going to be comparing them to each other. As long as they were neat and tidy, decently centered I was ok with it . Maybe I am not that much of a perfectionist. I would buy a big box of envelopes and practice a few until you get into the flow. Also, a nice pen helps - I got a Sharpie pen, I like them a lot . Good luck!

Hey there, I am not sure what is 'etiquette' - but I actually enjoyed handwriting them (unless I aligned the writing improperly and had to re-do them), I did 60 ish by myself - but it took only a couple hours.

Ola my fellow Winnipegger! I am also going to Cuba, but in June 2010 ! Happy planning - there are tons of ideas here, you should also check out the Cuba subforum for specific info about Cuba .

- Steph

Hey guys - just thought I would give a shout out, as I am officially a Winnipegger now (after 3 yrs+ years here), I was new to this idea of socials and found it a little weird at first but its a tradition here - if my FI and I were from here we would probably do one, but I really think you need a big team effort to pull them off right, and our whole family and majority of our wedding party don't live here. Congrats on being done Silverangel, do you think it was worth it in the end?

 

I just went to one on Halloween, I one a prize - of 30 scratch tix + some other junk (literally I want to throw everything else out lol). I couldn't believe I only won $20 on 30 scratch tickets ahaha, but I broke even for the night. I think lotto tickets with better other prizes would be good (as it was none of the stuff was related at all, there are like ugly golf shirts and a model car in it). One of their grand prizes was a Wii, they were charging $5 for ONE grand prize ticket (is that standard?) - so I'm guessing they made lots of $$ haha. I think Wii's are still a good prize, not everyone has one yet. If you got it for free then that's awesome! Pizza would be pretty sweet at a social, although I would miss the pickles. Another social I went to they were giving away a trip to Mexico or something, it sounded sweet but it was only for 1 person...and it was leaving like the next weekend...so the person who won didn't use it. I think spa packages are always a good prize too...Also, I think it would be cool to have like a photography prize if you know any photogs who might be willing to give you a deal or something...

 

Anyway, I am clearly procrastinating from studying...so back to work for me! Keep us updated with the planning

Hey Mel (?)

I really think you have to be 100% happy with your choice so I don't want to try to convince you too much hehe, I have never been to Varadero OR Cuba period and honestly I was tired of trying to research the THOUSANDS of options out there, I took the advice of several TAs who specialize in DW that this resort puts on beautiful weddings and the prices are quite competitive (but overall Cuba is better than most other places). Also, I don't mind the idea of not being close to a big city - they still have several excursions you can do in the area - you can even do an overnight trip to Havana if you want to. I'm planning to do at least 2-3 day trips off resort (in the 2 wks we will be there). But there are pros and cons to every resort - so you have to really pick the area you like. If you have your heart set on Varadero there are tons of great hotels there too. Good luck deciding!

OMG this makes me feel like a terrible person, lol, but you look great!!

Tiff - that is a pretty hilarious costume, I hope you didn't scar the children in the picture though haha (jk!). The funniest costume I saw was a girl dressed as a golden shower lol!

Looks great! I am in the process of making out guestbook - just wondering where did you find cute quotes.

I want a mix of mushy and funny - most of the ones I am finding about marriage are depressing!!

Hey there, I am going through a similar situation. Friends of ours just got engaged a few months ago - they had been planning on coming to our wedding but also knew they wanted a DW. So, long story short they asked if it would be ok if they got married at the same resort as us...I was at first a bit annoyed b/c I don't want to be a bridezilla, but I didn't want to share EVERYTHING with them, we aren't really even great friends anyway...So, they agreed to do it the week after us (still at the same resort) and we're going to stay an extra week so we can attend their wedding. So, they get a pre-wedding honeymoon and we get a week together after our wedding. It has worked out ok, but I just feel sort of weird about it sometimes b/c I picked this resort and they are just sort of going along with what I picked even though the bride wasn't super happy with the timing etc...I kind of wish they had just planned their own wedding completely b/c if something goes wrong I feel like its my fault. Also, our weddings are going to look so similar, but I know they will at least have unique features (we have very different tastes and I'm bringing my own photog). I am thinking you could do this too - maybe tell her you don't want to share your week (or however long your guests are going) but you might extend your trip so you could attend her ceremony...Good luck deciding! I can sympathize with what you're going through!

LOVE your pics - you were beautiful bride, you guys look like you had a lot of fun - your photog did a great job! Congrats

Wow that is terrible - so sorry for you and all of her loved ones. Yes, anyone with chronic disease (ie autoimmune conditions such as Crohn's, diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, asthma, COPD etc etc) is at increased risk of having serious consequences following H1N1 infection. That is really sad news - hope your DH is doing ok. *Hugs*

Really sorry to hear that Sara, how old was your friend?

 

I want to get the vaccine ASAP, I would go today but I am currently sick so I think I'll wait till next week.

I need help - I have a belly dancing costume I think I'm going to wear, but I want to make it more festive/funny...do you guys have any ideas I have a mullet wig...and possibly some other props...I wish I had time to make a better costume, but I am in the middle of exams .

Wow, those are really amazing pics - I love the vibe of your wedding. Your flowers were gorgeous, and you were a very beautiful bride! Congrats!!

I'm so sorry to hear that you have to go through this...I can't even imagine how stressful that would be. I agree that you need to talk to your mom ASAP and try to reason with her..maybe try to explain to her that you are happy and even if she doesn't approve she needs to accept it and be there for you. It seems so crazy that she would come to try to put a stop to it...

Hope that you can reason with her - we are here for you to vent to - do you have other close girlfriends you can talk to also? Stay strong!

Hey Ladies,

I don't currently take a multivitamin, but I don't see any harm in it. If you live anywhere in the North, you may also want to take an extra Vitamin D pill - a lot of ppl at deficient, especially if you don't drink a lot of milk or go out in the sun a lot (also not a lot in multivitamins). I also take Folic Acid, it does have other benefits - such as boosting your immune response (may not be a huge effect but studies have shown folate deficiency is associated with a variety of infections). I don't plan on getting preggo anytime soon, but it is not a bad idea for any woman. I also eat tums - mostly b/c I like the taste/texture (is that weird?) but you just have to watch that you're not overdoing it on these vitamins. (ie too much calcium can cause kidney stones, unlikely but possible if you eat tums like candy haha). I don't know if there is much evidence that branding really makes a difference in efficacy, but the type of pill I'm sure matters.

Although I don't take it myself - I know there's a good amount of research that echinacea can boost your immune response too, it's hard to tell how much of an effect it actually has, but it does seem to make people more resistant to viral infections etc. If anyone knows a good brand of this - I would be interested, I know it does make a difference which part of the plant is used...

That is so thoughtful - I think it's a great idea, there won't be a dry eye for sure...that is so sad to hear about your mom. I got teary eyed just hearing that

I agree with the others - it is just a bonus for us as well, I picked our resort because of our TA's recommendations, reviews and the locations for the wedding. It is really well set up for doing weddings, and I like that - HOWEVER, as far as I have heard you won't be getting a beach reception at our resort (Melia Las dunas or Melia csm) - so that might be something to take into consideration. You could also send an email to the wedding coordinators at the resorts you've been thinking about - that way you can ask specific questions (ie what are the options for the reception locations, wedding costs etc) - just an idea. I think that each resort has pros and cons you just have to decide what type of vibe you want (ie is being close to the city important to you? if so, you prob don't want Melia Las Dunas or Cayo Santa Maria...)

 

Good luck deciding

Hey Ladies - glad to see so many of us on here, I would just like to remind everyone to try to copy the NEWEST list.

 

Oct 2009

LIW - October 28, 2009 - Melia Las Dunas

 

Nov 2009

itsfinallyhere - November 16th, 2009 - Sirenis La Salina, Varadero

Blooroze (Beth) - November 25, 2009 - Iberostar Varadero

 

Dec 2009

ltoxopeu (Lori & Don) - December 3rd 2009 - Playa Pesquero, Holguin

Niclec - December 16/09 - Melia Las Dunas Santa Maria Cuba

 

Jan 2010

Melissa & Kent - January 5, 2010- Playa Pesquero

Kat & Daryl - January 17, 2010 - Tryp Peninsula

Amelie & Chad - January 20, 2010 - Breezes Bella Costa

C & I - January 22, 2010 - Playa Pesquero

K & G - January 26, 2010 - Iberostar Daiquiri

 

Feb 2010

Kevin and Dwana Feb 03, 2010 Bella Costa Varadero

Tracy and Colin Feb 03, 2010 Iberostar Laguna Azul, Varadero

Mark and Lolita Feb 12 2010 Iberostar Laguna Azul, Varadero

Lori and Travis-February 14th, 2010-Barcelo Marina Palace

Erin and Grant-February 16, 2010-Melia Las Dunas

Erin and Francis-February 18, 2010-Melia Las Dunas

 

March 2010

Jenna & Derek - March 1, 2010 - Barcelo Marina Palace

Lillian & Mike - March 4 2010 - Blau Varadero

Jennifer & Kris- March 17, 2010- Iberostar Laguna Azul

jackobelle - March 17th 2010 - Blau Varadero

Michelle and Jason- March 17th- Location to be confirmed soon!!

 

April 2010

Lana&Craig- April 28th, 2010- Iberostar Varadero

Krista & David - April 2 - Melia Varadero

Siobhan & Robin - April 27 - Iberostar Laguna Azul

Bethany & Jon - April 14 - Playa Costa Verde

Jenny & Casey - April 15 - Barcelo Marina Palace

Julie & Justin - April 20 - Brisas Guardalavaca

Eric & Sylvie - April 27 - Melia Las Dunas

Stacey & Ron (staceyg) - April 27 - Iberostar Varadero

Melidell- April 28th - Melia Las Dunas

 

May 2010

Anandie & Peter (Mrsaiello2b) - May 3, 2010 - Melia Las Dunas

Krista & Josh (K'osh) - May 4, 2010 - Playa Pesquero

Amanda & Adam - May 4, 2010 - Melia Las Dunas, Cayo Santa Maria

Lisa & Paul - May 5, 2010 - Iberostar Laguna Azul

Grace and Adrian - May 6th, 2010 - Iberostar Laguna Azul

Mandi & Mark - May 11th, 2010- Melia Las Dunas, Santa Clara, Cuba

Jill & Alex (JTAlberta) - May 19, 2010 - Playa Persquero

Chantelle & George - May 18, 2010 - Melia Varadero or Iberostar Laguna Azul

 

June 2010

Stephanie&Luke - June 2, 2010 - Melia Las Dunas, Santa Clara

 

July 2010

truelove4life (Rhea & Curtis) - July 2010 - exact day and resort is yet to be determined

Sarah&Shaun - 12th July 2010 - Iberostar Varadero

 

Oct 2010

Crystalballl - October 20, 2010 - Playa Pesquero, Holguin

 

December 2010

Krishna69z - December 1, 2010 - Iberostar Laguna Azul

 

April 2011

Janet and Larry(JNL)- Unknown

 

Please update if I missed anyone - I was trying to update it

Congrats LIW - hope you have a fantastic trip, please post a review when you get back too!! I really like your dress/BM dress, great job on everything!

"I can't color enough, I would color all day every day If I had my way, I would use every crayon in my box.We get it! You like to color!" Sex and the City - The Movie

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"Hey ____! What's your first order of business?... Let the ___ ____ start!"

I haven't received my books yet but I decided to go with Shutterfly, the program is on their website and the prices are pretty competitive - unfortunately I haven't gotten them back yet (it's been about 2 wks). You could with somewhere local if you were worried about the shipping. There are tons of websites that make photo books, I was going to use Mac (ie Apple) but I read quite a few reviews that people had problems with the picture quality...Good luck deciding, just as an FYI you should probably get to work on it soon (it only takes a couple hours, or more if you want it to) so you can get it before your wedding. Good luck deciding!

SNL made fun of this last night - apparently he said something to the effect of "I'm not racist, I just don't like the idea of mixing the races"

 

Next time you're trying to prove your not racist maybe don't use the definition of racism lol. So ignorant!!

Nice!! I was thinking about getting my FI to wear a grey suit...but I know the other guys aren't going to want to wear a full suit in the Cuban sun in June, I was thinking of maybe just a dress shirt (white), and grey pants with a black belt...I can't decide between grey and tan, they both look good with green. I am loving that J Crew suit. Did you FI try it on yet?