Yikes! Best of luck with all your plans! All I can tell you is you should love your photographers work and they should be enjoyable to work with.
You need to either deal with this now and get it out of your system working it over with him or find someone else. You don't want to be angry at the person capturing your images. They should be the last thing on your mind!
Keep a positive attitude and everything will take care of itself.
Lincoln & Lori