so... it's been said that everyone will have some sort of wedding drama. i thought i was immune. everythings been going so well....
background...
before my Fi and got engaged, we decided that he would take a year off from work to persue a dream. he had an oppurtunity to pro cycle again and needed to first lose some weight he gained since he retired the first time. i was for it, he's in his mid 30's and this would be his last chance before kids and all that. he cut his hours at work, but had a paycheck every 2 weeks. so i've been working, not more, just working. i pay my bills, he pays his with whatever income he gets. when we go out, i pay. this was decided, and i am totally fine with it.
so i told my girlfriends, one of them my BM and BF since 7th grade. I was her MOH. so a month ago, they staged an "intervention" b/c they thought i was working too much. i'm not, i work nights and have 2 part time jobs so the nights sometime go in a stretch, then i have 3-5 days off. they said i'm working so much to have the wedding i want and FI is not working. which isn't true, he cut his hours, and honestly, if i wasn't with FI i would probably be working more. My other girlfriend is seperating from her husband, and they used that as a ruse to get me to dinner to hang out with them. It was really about me and they ambushed me. long story short, i was very hurt and upset. i'm past it, just want to focus on the wedding now and i saw all of them at a wedding last week and it was fine.
my problem now is that i bought BM presents already, tiffany and co necklaces. and i don't want to give it to that one BM that ambushed me. after consideration, she still is in the wedding, but i feel like it's such a nice gift for such an awful friend
any advice?