ok, so even though in my mind i have been planning things for over a year, my original wedding plan fell apart (long story, scammer travel agent) now we have decided to start fresh and have pick a whole new place to get married. i'm trying to decide between two resorts ( to be done by the end of the week) but now i am worried i won't have enough time to send std's or i think it maybe pointless to do it so close to sending out invites. i want to get married the last week of May/08. what do you guys think? should i do both still?