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yaaa. it was definatly a fun crowd. got along great with them all. and they were not scared of being themselves in front of the camera hahaha

k so its not a destination wedding but i just loaded up a gallery for this Irish wedding i shot up here in Seattle... OH BOY were they a rowdy bunch as you can see towards the end there. they were all about the real candid and fun party photos and less about the posed stuff. these are the PG photos hahahaha Collages.net Home username "kristi jamie" password 15095 and when it asks for your email just say [email protected] or something like that or you will be reminded of when the gallery will expire...

wow..... why is there ALWAYS such drama with the brides maids.. why do women have to be so catty and jealous always. women just need to learn from the groomsmen... 1. grab your flasks, 2. talk about the opposite sex, 3. walk down the aisle, 4. and then party at the reception, 5. AND NOT CAT FIGHT they just gotta realize that not everyone cant be in the wedding party and sometimes you choose someone to be a BM or MH for a specific reason and that doesnt mean you like the others less. its not the end of the world ... well dont let it ruin your day. cause i dont want it effecting you and making you stressed out for the photos. cause im not about to have a stressed out bride hehehe

ya. i think if you make sure you mention that to every guest coming and write down the names of the people that will be attenting the reception taht you will be able to avoid the unwanted ones plus you could slip two of the federales with their machine guns a few dollars to stand gaurd

getting pictures before hand together is usually a good idea because after the ceremony everyone will be wanting to congratulate you and its tough to get away from it all and have some privacy together for photos. plus you will have to rush back to the reception.... i always try and advise that you have a little "first look" series of photos where you might be hidden somewhere and you walk out and he sees you. or he is blind folded or something like that. it ends up being a much better shot then when you walk down the aisle because you can capture the two of you right there and not you all the way down the aisle and him up front. plus its more intimate and personal and you can have a little time together to just enjoy the moment. then i like to take a few pictures of just the two of you and maybe the wedding party photos. then after the ceremony you can get the family photos done and some more pohtos of just the two of you maybe later on with the sun setting or wherever. dont try and get it all done right at the end. it always ends up getting rushed and photos sacrificed.. BUTTTTT if you are really traditional and want just have him see you when you walk down the aisle just make sure that you stand firm and give yourself plenty of time and get them taken care of. just realize that the tradition of only seeing you down the aisle for the first time and the veil comes from pre-arranged marriages where they didnt want the groom running off if he saw the bride. and im willing to bet that isnt the case with you two... just dont see each other before reveal photo and it really makes for some great photos hope that helps

Quote: Originally Posted by froggie1013 I actually have the opposite problem. I want it all the time and FI is fine with once every week or two. It's drives me crazy! WHAT? once a week thats unheard of... he didnt have an industrial accident where his two boys were severed off was he? Quote: Originally Posted by xJuicyJx I also have this problem. Actually it was one of the few reasons I went off of BC. It happened when I was on the Nuvaring and a few different types of pills. It really sucked bc I never thought I'd be the kind of stereotype to "fake being asleep" just to get out of it lol Sometimes I think it's just pure lazyness on my part. STOP BEING LAZYYYYY... get on it hahaha Quote: Originally Posted by monicaswave So now I'm in a this wonderful relationship with the man I plan to spend the rest of my life with and I have the opposite problem. I feel like I want it all the time and it drives me insane that he doesn't. I try to be really understanding since I know what it's like to have a low sex drive but The few times he does initiate things is in the middle of the night after we go out and I'm sound asleep. Don't get me wrong I would love to wake up and get it on but most of the time I am so deep into my sleep I blow him off without even realizing it. I'm a very deep sleeper so I suggested he try in the morning or when I'm awake and no change. Am I crazy no.. i dont think you are crazy. i guess some guys are jus tlike that.. i dont know any. but ive heard of them. well if its any consultation i wouldnt worry about it being you... just stop sleeping so soundly and get on it during the night hahaha

oh maaaaannn.. trouble at bayside... zach just kissed lisa before her big fashion show and screech saw the entire thing... now he wants to fight zach.... i wonder how this will end (pretending like he hasnt seen it before)

Quote: Originally Posted by dc22173 This has got to be the best story I have read in a while . Here I am at almost 2am laughing my a** off. I am sure my kids are thinking that their mom has finally gone nuts. Thanks for the laugh i tend to have that effect on people. better stay away from threads i commented in or you might end up in the loonie bin

Quote: Originally Posted by JamaicaBride062108 Who doesn't love cartoon boobies? Pirates! 'nuf said! Oh and Jean-Marcus, Here is my fav T-shirt hell shirt how did i NOT ever see the carton boob one hahaha... funnyyyyy the hijacked one should be my new fave one cause thats what i seem to do and ya. that shirt is funny. they got some funny stuff on there

k so earlier i mentioned that i usually end up giving advice to my female friends because my father was an OBGYN and i took several sexuality classes in college... well i called him up to ask .. of course he is going to think that im secretly asking for myself because i said... "i have this friends in this chat room" and the women were talking about their libido dropping and wondering why it was... so pretty much his advice was... first off try switching types of BC pills... if that doesnt work maybe an alternative like that IUD or depo pravera or diaphram ( a pain to always use though) but he strongly urges that you talk to your doctor about it because it could be a variety of reasons .

Quote: Originally Posted by JaimeLynne the problem isn't getting him ready though... it's getting us girls ready! i know that... i have been following along... i was just commenting on the other girls response...

Quote: Originally Posted by Just Martha Dirty text messages during the day! I am not a perv, but it works.... Not that I know or anything...I just heard from ummm, someone at work. oh my gosh ladys.. you have NOOOOO IDEAAAAAA how much this gets us men going... especiallypicture messaging. send him a few of those during the day and by the time he gest home he will be ... well.. ya

Quote: Originally Posted by Saraha I am so surprised to see that Im not a alone on this.... Im hope the honeymoon, no stress, aloneness etc will get things going again.... well then.. i guess women shouldnt complain that men are always wanting sex because if you think about it... if guys went through the same lack of desire for sex then when women did want it chances are men wouldnt and then no one would ever be having it hehehe

Quote: Originally Posted by CaliaA07 I leave for 5 minutes and someone gets knocked up. I like the cute idea. I always wanted to change all the underwear in his drawer for baby diapers. Haha. Congrats now pass that luck to me haha yaaaa. i like that idea too. who came up with that one.. much cuter then my baby corn and baby ribs for dinner hahaha

Quote: Originally Posted by Saraha But now we live together, in a routine... same ol same ol. Maybe I just need to tell him to move away again LOL see routine is such a mood killer. its like i dread thursdays because that means i have to take out all the recycling. its not even that big of a deal but its just something i nknow i have to do. you seriously have to break the routine.. theres no excitement in sex any more so whats the joy in having it... take it upon yourself to kick start this sex life back up again... im not saying become a dominatrix over night haha... but suprise him.. lets make that spark happen again. how about a little road action while he is driving sometime . hopefully that will trigger him to be more adventurous as well. maybe treat you to a nice little get away for some sexy alone time

Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa Mo, i love that idea of baby size foods - that is so cute! hahah thanks.. maybe i came up with that cause im hungry and oh baby back ribs does sound good

ya. they will understnad . especially if you give all that time. its not like you just up and quit on them. you are moving to another state. its not like you can commute there and watch their children

no wonder this thraed got so much traffic haha.. sex topic OKAYY from a guys point of view... (and im not an idiot when it comes to this. dads OBGYN and took several sexuality classes in college) so understandable that a lot of women have this problem. and i hardly eve hear that its from bc or changing the bc switches it up... was the sex life ever great? or was it just like kind of bland like having a PBJ for dinner when you are hoping for a fine meal? are you two pretty adventurous? do either one of you try to spice things up? its so common for things to go down (no pun) if it hasnt really been that great to begin with. is it like lights off kind of sex every friday or have you ever just wanted to pounce on him soon as he walks in the door cause you have been wanting it all day long? try little baby steps. maybe watch some ummm "adult" movies together , or bring a little toy into the bedroom or something. you alwys want to try and keep things fresh and never ever have a routine. it should be so much more then just a "deed to be done" it should be about you two sharing the most intimate connection possible together and if you dont have a healthy completely loving relationship and where you are open to each others desires it wont ever be that great.. i hope you break this rut and get back on track... sounds to me like you really liked it in the begining because it was exciting and new so get out there and try somehing new.. pull over into a parking garage once and have a wild romp in the back seat

congrats tahts frickin amazing... glad you dindt have to go with fertility drugs cause then youd end up like my cousin... TRIPLETS hehehe yaaaa. tell him tonight what if you made dinner with all sorts of things like BABY back ribs, BABY corn, ummm BABY formula hahaha okay not the formula but things with baby in it

are you going to have turkey at your reception.. mmmm turkey HAPPY PLANNING and welcome to the BDW

Quote: Originally Posted by Kryztan Because what the heck? Why would you need this in a convo?LOL! uhhhh i just used it yesterday actually.. explaining the really dumb thing that i did simply because i knew what would happen but felt inclinded to do it anyways.... jk

Quote: Originally Posted by DougsGirl Nope, sorry Andrea, no more pics I was the only one who broke out the camera, altho I'm sure J-M might have if we'd have asked. i didnt have my camera around.. its a big ol' thang. i had the iphone camera though hahaha. yours did the trick

welcome... and this is SOOO the place fory ou to help pick out a place. so many couples here have been to lots of lovely places so there are tons of reviews and photos and things to help you decide. happy planning to you

congrats.. tahts one sigh of relief im sure happy planning to you and best wedding wishes

Quote: Originally Posted by Nic Dragomire MSN Emotions & Emoticons well look who put put up a little picture of himself.. awwwwww.. thats an extensive list of emoticons.. ill just stick to my faces