@bluenkj Welcome to BDW. First question - do you have a travel agent that you're working with? That would be the first recommendation I would make. Since you're looking for a very specific type of wedding, a travel agent would be the best to help you with which resort could best accommodate the type of wedding you're looking for.
You don't say if you're in the the US or Canada, but either way the owners of this site have travel agents that would be able to provide you with information on the resorts that would be able to assist you with what you're looking for.
I think most of the larger resorts would be able to accommodate the religious wedding that you're looking for.
Good luck and keep us posted on what you come up with.