@calgarybride2015 @rachelia160 I agree with you guys, in the end we're all much better off without those that said no due to drama reasons (rather than financial ones, which are totally understandable). I guess Juan's friend could talk to our TA and see what happens. I know the rates are now $300 more expensive than what we paid so I don't know how much of a deal he'll get. I really hope they stay in the same hotel as us because our reception ends at 11:00 and now that they upgraded us to a suite with a private terrace we'll probably continue the party there. Unfortunately for those not staying at our hotel they need to leave as soon as the reception is done . I mean I feel bad for his friends, but I also don't think it's fair to ask people to pay another $50 plus a cab ride to go downtown and continue the party at a club when we have a perfect place in our room/the hotel club.
At this point his friends still don't know what they're doing, where they're staying, who they're bringing, etc. I just talked with Juan this weekend and asked him to pressure them a bit for an answer because we need to start finalizing numbers so I can start working on the rest of the planning.
Anyway, this totally wen't off topic from the thread, I just needed to vent haha. Moral of the story, you won't make everyone happy and not everyone's decisions will make you happy, but I try to focus on the good things and do what makes us two happy . Juan never really cared what people thought about him, which I really admire, but I needed to work on it.