So tonight my fiance finds out that one of our invites (his cousin and family) has her sister & husband coming to the resort so they can vacation together -- which is totally fine!. She knows she isn't invited to the wedding and doesn't mind, but fiance's mom says we should extend the offer to her and apparently she has told fiance's mom she is willing to foot the bill for her portion to come.
We explained that no one would have to pay to attend our wedding, but I told fiance I am torn on what to do. That I want some time to think about it.
You feel bad that she will be there and everyone is off enjoying your wedding,but on the flip side she wasn't invited!!!! Our costs are about $70 per person, then all the OOT items, favors, etc.
I know it's only 2 more people, but we can't extend this to everyone, you know? Where do you draw the line.
I guess I probably feel less bad than fiance as it is his side of the family not mine.
What would you do?
Anyone else been in this situation?