Jump to content

Guest list

rockerchic

By rockerchic
in Brides Roll Call

 Share

Recommended Posts

rockerchic

rockerchic

Posted
Posted

Hi, I am new to this and I have just sent away the proposal for our February 8th wedding day to Moon Palace resort and spa in Mexico. Can't wait to really start planning. Biggest issue we are having right now is the guest list. Any suggestions on how to decide who to invite and who not to. We are planning on throwing a party when we get back so we can invite those that were not invited to the wedding. We were just going to keep it to family and really close friends, but now the debate we are having is the family we invite. Especially on his side his italian/polish. Large families on both sides.

Any suggestions would be great.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
shan0487

shan0487

Posted
Posted

Hi and congrats!!

 

There are plenty of Moon Palace threads that can help you along the way!!

 

I was a Sun Palace bride but we stayed at Moon Palace so I can help you with any questions you may have- feel free to PM.

 

As for the guest list- we invited everyone to the wedding that we would have invited at home knowing that most people were not going to come and then we had an open house party at our house 2 months after the wedding. 

 

We invited about 110 people to the wedding and 39 people came to Mexico with us! Pretty good turn out and it was a perfect number for us- not too many but not too little and we had about 90 room nights so we got the max group benefits so I did not may anything for my ceremony, cocktail hour or reception!! :)

 

 

Originally Posted by rockerchic View Post

Hi, I am new to this and I have just sent away the proposal for our February 8th wedding day to Moon Palace resort and spa in Mexico. Can't wait to really start planning. Biggest issue we are having right now is the guest list. Any suggestions on how to decide who to invite and who not to. We are planning on throwing a party when we get back so we can invite those that were not invited to the wedding. We were just going to keep it to family and really close friends, but now the debate we are having is the family we invite. Especially on his side his italian/polish. Large families on both sides.

Any suggestions would be great.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
  • 8 months later...
  • 2 months later...
shan0487

shan0487

Posted
Posted

300 people is a lot to invite to a normal wedding, esp a destination wedding so that could go either way- you could end up with 70 or 200!!!! Just remember destination weddings are meant to be more intimate and as long as your closest family and friends are there to celebrate with you that is all that matters!! I wouldn't have changed anything about my 41 person wedding it was the perfect amount.  Now when I go to weddings back home I stress out for the bride and groom thinking about how they have to talk and throw a party for 200 plus people! :)

Thanks for sharing @shan0487. I am currently torn on how many to invite too. b/c My FI to invite EVERYone (~300 people) and I want to keep costs down but want a decent turnout (60-80people). Not sure if we should invite the 300 and hope for 80 or invite significantly less.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
krisdaversa

krisdaversa

Posted
Posted

@@rockerchic We decided to invite everyone who we were going to invite if we had a wedding in our City. A lot of people aren't going to show due to cost and/or time off work. I think it also depends on the resort as well, there are many that include the wedding dinner and others were you still need to pay per person. So if you are doing a destination wedding to keep cost down and your resort is pay per guest then I would invite family and close friends.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
 Share
Go to topic listing

  • Best Destination Wedding Sponsors



    Facebook Pinterest Google+ Twitter

  • Posts

    • Emmma
      Cabo Azul Wedding Cost / Review

      By Emmma · Posted

      Hi everyone! I have been doing lots of research on various wedding venues all around Mexico, my fiance wants a destination wedding and I am happy to have a wedding wherever so long as the vibe is right and guests are happy!  I have been seriously looking at Cabo Azul and was trying to find potential costs for them, but only found a page about their wedding costs from 2010. Does anyone have any updated information on costs / reviews they would like to share of this venue? Or advice in general, anything helps. Thanks so much, happy wedding planning to all!
    • KristinaH
      Wedding venues and wedding planner in Costa Rica

      By KristinaH · Posted

      Hello everyone, I am dreaming of a wedding in Costa Rica and was wondering if I could get any help with venues and wedding planners. I am thinking Tamarindo because a close friend of mine lives there and I've been in town more than a couple of times, she's being helpful but is at a loss when it comes to this subject really so I was wondering if anyone here had recommendations. I am not closed to other town suggestions either, if I happen to find a good place and staff somewhere else. These are the places I have so far, has anyone had any experience with any of them?  Stay In Tamarindo Luxury Villas in Costa Rica Luxury Villas Pinilla Tropical Homes of Costa Rica The Point Luxury Villa Thank you so much for your help!
    • GeorgeLog
      Unsupportive friends - Another venting topic!

      By GeorgeLog · Posted

      Have you ever considered having a wedding inside a bubble? With the current global situation, many couples are looking for unique and creative ways to celebrate their special day while keeping their guests safe. A wedding inside a bubble could provide a whimsical and intimate setting for your ceremony and reception. Imagine saying your vows surrounded by a beautiful bubble filled with twinkling lights and flowers, creating a magical atmosphere for you and your loved ones to enjoy.
    • GeorgeLog
      Priviate Carribean Vacation?

      By GeorgeLog · Posted

      Adult only resort or not? Let's discuss the pros and cons of choosing an adult-only resort for your honeymoon. While some couples may appreciate the peace and quiet that comes with an adults-only environment, others may prefer a more family-friendly atmosphere. What are your thoughts on this? Have you had any experiences at adult-only resorts that you'd like to share? Let's hear your opinions and recommendations!
    • GeorgeLog
      Magazine Programs/bag Stuffers

      By GeorgeLog · Posted

      When it comes to planning a wedding, one of the most exciting parts is choosing the perfect wedding favours for your guests. These small tokens of appreciation are a great way to thank your loved ones for being a part of your special day and to make them feel appreciated.

  • Topics

×
×
  • Create New...