Originally Posted by moodyc82
My future MIL wanted a big AHR and we told her unless she's paying for it were doing what we can afford.....so crazy to even think about it at this point
Originally Posted by evbaez
My FIL wants us to have one after we come back from the wedding. I told my fiance "not happening". My FIL's reasoning is that not everyone that has been invited to the wedding will be able to attend. Which i understand, but i dont want to spend more money after our DW. Unless they are paying for the AHR, we willl not be having one.
Ah don't you love people with their opinions? LOL we have been fortunate, we haven't had that yet, and I am thankful for this. I have a feeling we could keep the AHR to a minimum likely, under 30 people. Do you only invite people who couldn't come to the wedding and those who weren't invited but you would love to share this with?
I'm actually not clear on how AHR "usually" work.
If we have a relatively small #, maybe we'll just do a dinner somewhere and I'll show up in my wedding dress lol!