So I'm only in the begining part of my wedding planning. We've only been engaged for 2 weeks however we started planning a month ago. But now one of my BF's feel like it is her place to critic everything I do and give me her "opinion". It was one thing when she asked if she can copy my about us portion of the wedding website and correct the gramatical errors. I was cool with that since I typed it at 1am. There are bound to be mistakes. However emailing me the corrections with added sentences and taking out the sentences that I had is another thing. It didn't even sound like me. Which I kindly told her. I corrected the 3 words that were wrong, and left it at that.
But today she told me I need to make a public announcement of our wedding plans. People's feelings will be hurt and I need to let them know sooner than later. And make them feel better. WTF!!! For what. Oh and it is improper etiquette for me to hand out invites. It was ok to hand deliver the STD's not the invites. I must mail them and pay extra for stamps. I mean really, who makes up these rules? Let's be real the people that really matter are invited. Everyone else just wants to party, eat and drink on my behalf. We already planned on having an AHR/Party to celebrate with all the people that couldn't make it. But it is going to be pretty casual. Because other wise it will defeat the whole purpose of going over seas to save money. But i get the feeling people want me to spend more money to make them happy. And that is not going to happen. She was upset whrn I told her that I only wanted my mother and sister to come with me to look for gowns. But simply put I don't want any opinionated people with me ruining my dress shoping experience. I've watched enough say yes to the dress to know who that plays out.
Then I have the people that are upset because my wedding is not convient for them. Last time I checked it was my wedding. A special day for me and my FI. One person came at me like that and they were not even getting invited. Then my biological father tried to come at me like as well. Honestly I could care less if he comes. He wasn't around to raise me and wasn't in my life growing up so....if you make it, cool. if not. Oh well.
Ok that is my rant for now. I love this site. It really has all my needs. From looking, to DIY, to reviews to rants. It doesn't get much better that this.