I need some advice on this. My MOH is angry at me because I bought my dress without her. It was becoming too hard to do it according to her schedule so I ended up going on my own and found my dress. I brought my daughter with me the next day and we both agreed that I should buy it. I told my MOH, first that I was going to look and second that I'd found one I loved and she was angry at me.
She has not answered emails I've sent her but she sent me one the other day just asking a question which I answered.
She has not answered texts from me but she has sent me a couple of joke texts over the past couple of weeks.
This has happened with her in the past where she has gotten mad at me and never confronted me. It would go on for a few months until I broke down and apologized (again) and asked her if she really wanted to stop a 25 year friendship over something like this. You'd think we were in high school and not in our mid 30s.
I'm now to the point that I don't know if I want her in my wedding party anymore. If I have to stress about her being mad at me for this or that, I just don't want to worry about it anymore. We were only going to have one MOH and a groomsman. We were talking last night about having just us up there.
Have any of you had to UN-ask somebody to be in your wedding party?