sascolo - the resort we are getting married at does not allow personalized vows but after the minister does reads the standard vows you can add your own.
But we are not going to. I did find a really nice sand ceremony script about the sand and water etc. I emailed the stateside coordinator and she said they have a standard script for that as well and she sent it to me and its very standard. So I am going to ask the wedding coordinator at the resort if the minister could read the one I want and if not I might just have FFL to read it.