I refuse to invite my step Mom for my wedding
Posted 24 July 2010 - 12:22 AM
Any advice on how I should tell my Dad "I refuse to invite her"
If she shows up with my dad I'm fine with that but I don't want to have to make the invitation myself
Confused and sad Bride here
Posted 24 July 2010 - 12:28 AM
Good luck and I hope your wedding day is beautiful.
Posted 24 July 2010 - 12:37 AM
Posted 24 July 2010 - 02:33 AM
I agree with msjulie5475. I think if you are really close to your dad or have a good relationship, it would be be nice for him to have his wife there.
It is your wedding day & honey you are getting married soon! Don't let anything get you down. You are marrying your true love & that is what is most important.
Although she hasn't extended an olive branch in the past by the sounds, taking the higher road & inviting her is a kind thing to do for your dad. You never know, she may come around eventually. I'm sure she is happy for you in her own way
No being a sad panda! Focus on you, your partner & your soon to be gorgeous day I hope you are both very happy & best wishes
Posted 25 July 2010 - 09:20 AM
Posted 05 June 2013 - 10:53 AM
I am a step-mother (11 years) that has not been invited to my step- sons wedding (this weekend in TX) and I have always had a good relationship with him and let me tell you this has broken my heart deeply. He expressed his feelings to his dad that he did not want to reminded of the divorce this was his day. He is 26 yrs old so I have been involved in his life thru baseball/football and college. It has put alot of stress on our marriage because we do love each other and he made the decision to go without me. As far as I am concerned he will not be welcome in our home. I hope and pray that this young man is never put in the same situation that he has put his own dad in. I have two married daughters and if the situation was reversed I know I would do the right thing. Always put God first in everything you do and you will have a great marriage.
Posted 10 June 2013 - 08:56 AM
Great perspectives and advice, everyone to throw my opinion into the mix, here goes........I believe that there's lots of merit in the song lyrics of "All you need is love, love love......Love is all you need."
If you follow your heart, and listen to your inner vioce that's connected to "who you really are at your core" it will tell you the right thing to do for you
Everybody needs and wants to be loved, and I see shining your love on everyone around you as being a win /win all around. ...even those who may seem unreceptive or non-responsive.
You may be surprised at the wonderfully positive impact you really have on them
....and that's all I have to say about that.......
yes, all tears of Joy n Deeply Heartfelt Love !!!
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