Brandy, I'm not able to hear/see the video because I can't view youtube here at work. Who is the singer? I do not think there is anything wrong with a unique song... if it fits you and your FI, go with it. I picked my song (no joke) when I was a senior in high school. Of course I didn't know who I was marrying and I knew I'd have to make sure it fit us, but when I gave FI three options, he chose my song! We are using Me and You by Kenny Chesney!
Meggers, I'm sorry to hear about your situation with the photographer. For me, the photographer was the most important thing as well. I had looked at our options in Mexico and didn't really like any of them, so that's one reason why we chose to bring our photographer with us! I can't wait!! I hope things work out for you. You must have a great photographer already picked because you care so much to begin with! If you are going to lose your money, it doesn't sound like it would be worth it...but I understand your feeling!