No Idea what I am doing!!!
Posted 20 July 2009 - 12:33 PM
But this is my vent.
I realized recently that I have no idea how to plan a wedding. I have no clue what I'm doing. I have no idea if I am doing it right. I hardly know where to go.
And even when I take advice like "its your day, do what you want to do," into consideration, that isn't always possible. For example. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to get married in Belize. Fact of the matter: Its expensive to stay there. And the fiance's family simply can't afford it. They can't afford much, for that matter. Which is why we will be paying for probably at least three members of his family to come out. Which is fine. Except that REALLY eats into my budget. So I have to keep reminding myself not to look at the places I would really like, because tehre is no way that we will be able to afford it. Which sucks. Belize is beautiful! And even if I didn't do Belize, my tastes tend to run towards small resorts - not the monster behemoths that offer the best rates. ARGH!!!
I also have no idea whats supposed to be done when, or of even HALF the teeny details involved in planning the thing. And when I ask the other half to pitch in, he says "I just want to get it over with." Thanks. So do I - but I want to have my family there, as I only plan on doing this once!!!
And the more I try to juggle all of this on my own, the more I get that tight little knot in the pit of my stomach that twists and makes me all tense and frustrated.
And now my man has flown HALFWAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY for over a month, leaving me to try and juggle it on my own....
Posted 20 July 2009 - 12:45 PM
Posted 20 July 2009 - 01:02 PM
What is it about Belize that you love so much?
Find something a little cheaper that has everything you love about Belize
What do you think your fiance's family could afford?
Try to find them something in that range
Posted 20 July 2009 - 03:07 PM
Posted 20 July 2009 - 03:39 PM
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