Posted 03 March 2009 - 03:20 PM
I just think it's easy for us to say what we would or would not do. Everyone's heard the quote "easier said then done".
As for her dad, I'm not sure that he's making it easy for her. We don't know what type of conversation they had behind closed doors. He could have begged her not to back to Chris but as you said he can't control her. Rihanna is a grown woman and she has to make her own decision (unfortunately in life we don't always make the best decision).
So my question is...what do u do if you have a girlfriend or an adult daughter in this situation. Because we all know that love is blind. Do u stop being her friend or disown your daughter because she won't leave her bf/fiancee/husband w/e?
And Jacquline since you were in a similar situation did you listen to your loved ones when they were looking out for your best interest. I just think its a really hard and frustrating situation. I don't think what you said was harsh at all I can understand your frustration, and I'm sorry to hear that u were in a situation like Rihanna, if anything I would think you would be a little more sympathetic. I'm glad you got out and I hope she gets a reality check too before it's too late!!
Soooo ummm, what exactly does KWIM mean??