My Divorced in Laws
Posted 30 September 2008 - 07:21 PM
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:31 PM
Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:34 PM
We are worried about how to handle the s.o. issue with both parents. MIL is in a relationship that started during separation and FIL has been on one date. My DF is usually very quite about his emotions but has said it's his day and he won't let their fight get in the way of how happy he is.
I think if your FI's mother does decide to miss the wedding she will regret it more than he will. Best you can do is try to honor her in a special way in her absence, maybe have her record a special wedding message on tape for him to listen to or watch in private or publicly...whatever he wants. That way he can include her with out the danger of a divorce blow out...
Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:32 PM
| Originally Posted by Soon To Be Mrs. Gomez |
Okay, so both my parents and my fiance's parents are divorced. My parents have been divorced for 20 years so they have a good relationship causing me no stress. However, my FMIL hates her ex-husband and had actually said that if my fiancee invited his dad to the wedding, she would not go. So this week, I found out that my FMIL has not booked yet even though the STDs went out in early August. I told my fiance this and he said not to stress and that if his mother doesn't go to the wedding, he would not stress. I know this is untrue because I know he would be totally sad if his mom does not make it and I'm worried how he is really going to handle it if she really does not show up.
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Posted 02 October 2008 - 08:52 AM
We thought we would have the same thing with FMIL refusing to go because FI's sister wasn't invited - FI said if she didn't go because of that reason he would tell her straight that he didn't want anything to do with her again.
I think you've got to let FI fight this battle
Posted 02 October 2008 - 09:33 AM
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