Family to be making me angry!!!
Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:11 AM
I agree with everyone family can bring out the craziness in you especially when there is a wedding being planned. This is both our second marriages so we have decided what happens it will be our way and no one is going to influence it!
I think it would be easier for me to deal with if it were a money issue for the family but just like some of you said it isn't. Unfortunately my soon to be mother inlaw loves drama and I think that this is now her new fix. See how pissed off she can make the noobie... well she is not going to get the best of me!
In the end I honestly think what makes me angry is that my FI's mother and sister have been batteling with his sister in law for years and that was one of the first questions that was asked "will they be attending" - then the other remark that was made was if all the rest of the family would be attending except for his sister then it is not fair because her family could not come - well i can not help that she insists on staying home and not getting a job even though both her kids are in school. The sister is always an issue in EVERY family decision when it comes to anything that has money involved, actually it is always about what will make her happy...Ugh! I thik I am doomed!
Good luck to everyone else that is going through something similar I know it totally SUCKS and I REFUSE to let them ruine this for us!
Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:58 AM
Posted 15 September 2008 - 11:29 AM
Posted 15 September 2008 - 12:31 PM
Hope everyting works out for you.
Posted 15 September 2008 - 02:00 PM
Unfortunately for me FMIL and her new hubby are going lmao We've had the same thing from my family AND his friends and my response has been "oh shame you can't make it!"
We discussed a DW years ago and FMIL said (oh I remember lol) "now don't leave it too long because ** is getting on!!" I asked who that was and she said her brother!! I mean by this point i'd been with FI 3 years and never met him lmao My response "he isn't invited" that killed the convo lmao
She has been told in no uncertain terms to back off or i'll rip her head off - FI made me promise not to talk to her about it lmao
So my advice, say "shame" then promptly extend your right hand fold back your thumb and 3 fingers leaving the middle finger upright and shove it right up lmao
Posted 15 September 2008 - 02:26 PM
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