When you ask someone to participate in your ceremony.....
Posted 06 September 2008 - 11:48 PM
Posted 07 September 2008 - 12:07 AM
Posted 07 September 2008 - 12:51 AM
Posted 07 September 2008 - 04:37 AM
I'd just speak to FI and say look its obvious she doesn't want to come and she is creating drama so I say she doesn't get involved as its only going to ruin the day.
Then poiltely tell her to shove her opinions up her arse and say you're off the guest list.
Life is hard enough without someone shoving their beliefs down your throat.
Posted 07 September 2008 - 02:16 PM
Then you add emotions and persons feeling into the mix and it is so much easier said than done! UH!
Well she called FI and said that she would LOVE to read at the wedding so long as it was not a scripture from the bible since she didn't want to read that if she were not in a church so not to look like a hypocryte?!
But she is excited to do it and I will give her the reading and hope that will be it for the drama. I hope that it will all be calm now.
So much has happened this weekend and makes me realize that life is so short and that the people that you love and hold dear you should put first and show them the love rather than play games.
Sorry for the emotions. My Aunt unexpetedly passed away this weekend at a very young age and it sucks. Makes you think
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